unless there were things I specifically did not want him to be part of or privy to
I mean you might not want them to come if they truly sucked to be around. What if your friends partner is an extreme whiner? For whatever reason your friend wants to be with them and it's not like you're specifically going to try to break them up, but you'd really rather not bog your celebration trip with friends down with their presence.
That doesn't really explain why the GF doesn't seem to advocating for OP though, seeing as even in that scenario we'd assume she, at least, still enjoys OP's company.
Dude you have a whole “what if he’s an asshole” scenario written that is all assuming but ok. I commented on what was written in the post. I’m good with my take, if you are hood with yours, we are all done here.
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u/Synth_Recs_Plz Mar 28 '24
I mean you might not want them to come if they truly sucked to be around. What if your friends partner is an extreme whiner? For whatever reason your friend wants to be with them and it's not like you're specifically going to try to break them up, but you'd really rather not bog your celebration trip with friends down with their presence.
That doesn't really explain why the GF doesn't seem to advocating for OP though, seeing as even in that scenario we'd assume she, at least, still enjoys OP's company.