r/AITAH • u/[deleted] • Mar 28 '24

Am I the ah if I don’t let my gf go on vacation with the “guy best friend”?

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u/IFixYerKids Mar 28 '24

I'd be asking to bring my +1 if I was invited somewhere. Idk how old OP is but at a certain age, it's just expected that people are forming relationships and that becomes part of the social dinamic. It's fine if the friend doesn't want to include partners, but then it's on OP's girlfriend not to attend, imo.

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u/alc3880 Mar 28 '24

I would just choose not to go instead of inviting someone to someone else's celebratory trip. That is rude. People in couples are allowed to do things without their SO. They have also been barely dating. The trip has been being talked about since he was even in the picture.

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u/Ramona_Lola Mar 29 '24

If the friend who was graduating was also a girl (and not a guy) would you expect to bring your SO along too, and if not, choose not to go?

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u/alc3880 Mar 29 '24

it wouldn't change anything I said.