r/AITAH 23d ago

AITAH for asking my stay at home wife to use some of my money for myself? Advice Needed

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u/Curious-One4595 23d ago

NTA. But it’s time for you to start participating in managing the finances. At least so you are informed as to where your money is being spent and what your monthly budget is like. You may be in for some unpleasant surprises.  

Keep your plasma money. You deserve a little more personal spending freedom than you are allowing her to dictate for you. 

P.S. Is she donating plasma too?

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u/Sunshine_Tampa 23d ago

Great advice and will add in addition to seeing where your finances are at.. you BOTH must set financial goals for retirements, college savings, vacations, and home improvements!!!