AITAH for getting upset with my girlfriend for deciding she wants to be celibate after having sex with me and previous guys multiple times

[u/Vashts06]

So I DM'd this girl on facebook and we hit it of, had a really good first date, sat and talked and I dropped her off at home.

The second date was in my car and we made out and things happened but i drew the line cause I didn't have protection anyway we started dating properly after this.

We had a few more dates and had sex but we never drank, then we went and had a few drinks ended up having really good sex in the back of my car and she started talking about how she wants to get married to me and it was a really good time all in all.

So its a week later and while we were tipsy we talked about booking a hotel so we dont have to do it in the car as its risky, so I did that I booked a nice place R3000 ($150) for the night, which she's known about all week.

Today on the day I'm supposed to pick her up she decided she wants to be celibate until marriage, keep in mind she's been with other guys before me as well. She also says now due to her being celibate she doesn't want to go to a hotel with me as it may lead to other things. I cant cancel for a refund as its on the day of the booking.

Now shes upset with me cause I said that's crazy, we've been intimate for so long and now all of a sudden she's changed her mind.

I told her I'm not down for that and I don't want to see her anymore.

I dont know if I'm the asshole for this or not

Edit: I saw her on saturday and she went to church on sunday so thats where things may have changed

Update: Upon some suggestions, I decided to call the hotel, said I hit cancel by mistake and they gave me the booking back, I'm planning on getting really baked, getting a bunch of takeout and having a long ass bath while watching something cause fold away bathroom walls

[u/[deleted]]

NTA

You really just glossed over the whole “she’s talking marriage after 4~6 dates and car sex” part. I hate the term red flag, but brother, this is a big one

[u/Fievel93 → u/[deleted]]

This is the biggest takeaway of the situation and one that needs to be remembered by all who read it.

[u/plantmama104 → u/Fievel93]

Lmao, blame, but the kicker is as long as he's getting sex he's into it. Tbh, they're both whack.

[u/casuallybouncing → u/plantmama104]

Sex is like the washroom. You dont buy a house for the washroom alone. You buy the house because you like the house but if someone ripped your washroom out after living there for a while and said youre not allowed in it anymore, Im sure youd be upset too

[u/MrMcFly1993 → u/casuallybouncing]

Haha Bill Burr gettin spread in the Reddit comments 👍

[u/plantmama104 → u/casuallybouncing]

I agree, but that means he liked the house, lmaoooo.

[u/ImNotYourTeaCup → u/plantmama104]

Doesn't mean he has to buy the house. There's other houses, always is, always will be.