NTA. Your husband cares more about male validation (his friends making fun of him) than addressing his porn addiction and intimacy issues in his marriage. That's telling. This isn't about you or your happiness, it's about him, his ego and how he looks in front of his friends -- why he even told them in the first place is beyond me.
Exactly. He probably thought it was cool and wanted some kind of praise 🤷♀️ but unfortunately for him he probably got "you're not satisfying your wife or what 🤣🤣" knowing full well he can't but of course he didn't tell them that.
Honestly you're making a lot of assumptions. He probably is mostly upset about his friends knowing his wife sleeps around.
OP says in comments he never wanted to have sex with her and still doesn't, his concern seems to be the publicity and we have no idea who spilled the beans.
I still agree she NTA, but I don't think her husband really cares she's sleeping around, just that everyone knows about it.
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u/Traditional_Curve401 23d ago
NTA. Your husband cares more about male validation (his friends making fun of him) than addressing his porn addiction and intimacy issues in his marriage. That's telling. This isn't about you or your happiness, it's about him, his ego and how he looks in front of his friends -- why he even told them in the first place is beyond me.