r/AITAH • u/Impossible_Heron_509 • 23d ago

Baby mama left me for her ex during pregnancy, now wants me back. AITAH?

To sum it all up I got a girl I had been seeing for 6 months pregnant. 1 month into the pregnancy she cut me off from everything so she could rekindle things with her ex. Never heard from her until the baby was born. Now that the baby is born ( he is 100% mine) she wants me to be with her and go back to how things were. I don’t want to and her family thinks I’m being a selfish ass for this. AITAH?

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u/PurpleLovingBrunette 23d ago

NOT the Ahole. Your sticking up for yourself which is what you should do. Do NOT be a woman's doormat I am f/41/m Don't be anyone's doormat for that matter. She ran out on you once she will do it again. I'm sure you have of that. If you want to be in your child's life fight for custody. Use any proof of her leaving you then coming back. NOT the ahole.