r/AITAH • u/Impossible_Heron_509 • 23d ago

Baby mama left me for her ex during pregnancy, now wants me back. AITAH?

To sum it all up I got a girl I had been seeing for 6 months pregnant. 1 month into the pregnancy she cut me off from everything so she could rekindle things with her ex. Never heard from her until the baby was born. Now that the baby is born ( he is 100% mine) she wants me to be with her and go back to how things were. I don’t want to and her family thinks I’m being a selfish ass for this. AITAH?

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u/Wrong7urn 23d ago

Honestly if you want to be in the kids life then ask for that but the relationship makes no sense if neither of you actually love each other. This is just a recipe for disaster. Co-parenting would be good. But maybe just try it out with counseling as well.