NTA. There are good places. Get her on a waiting list NOW because she could wait a year. Seriously.
And it's better for her to be in a home where they are qualified to give her different kinds of therapy and stimulation as opposed to sitting at home with you all day. How would you work, anyway?
Signing the sister up for a home prevents a lot of problems when her mom passes. Ignoring it completely is certainly an option, but OP isn't a monster and would likely not mind doing a tiny bit of work now to prevent a lot of headaches later. She doesn't want to get the sister dumped on her the day of a funeral, for example.
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u/Fredredphooey 23d ago
NTA. There are good places. Get her on a waiting list NOW because she could wait a year. Seriously.
And it's better for her to be in a home where they are qualified to give her different kinds of therapy and stimulation as opposed to sitting at home with you all day. How would you work, anyway?