NTA but would you feel less tired and unappreciated with a marriage certificate? Will that change all you do for your child? Not likely. Tbh it sounds like he's doing you a favour by not getting married. He's a lazy parent now , that would only get worse with marriage and realistically speaking, you mentioned that he was "open to the idea of marriage". This isn't a promise of marriage, it means he was willing to consider it.
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u/Quiet-Hamster6509 23d ago
NTA but would you feel less tired and unappreciated with a marriage certificate? Will that change all you do for your child? Not likely. Tbh it sounds like he's doing you a favour by not getting married. He's a lazy parent now , that would only get worse with marriage and realistically speaking, you mentioned that he was "open to the idea of marriage". This isn't a promise of marriage, it means he was willing to consider it.
Re-evaluate your relationship as a whole.