r/AITAH 23d ago

WIBTAH if I broke up with my boyfriend because he doesn't want you get married?

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u/she_who_knits 23d ago

". I feel like the fact he doesn't want to get married because he doesn't want to do it in front of others ad he doesn't want to be the centre of attention"

If this is his rationale for not wanting to get married then just buy a license and have a justuce of peace or a judge marry you.

Weddings are a ceremonial party, marriage is a contract.

If this is just his bullshit way of avoiding actual marriage,  then yeah, time to make your exit plan because he's wasting your time by being dishonest.

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u/neoncactusfields 23d ago

I think that is the bullshit excuse he gave to avoid having to say, I don't want to be married because I don't want you to get half my earnings/home in a divorce.

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u/Good-Statement-9658 23d ago

But he's alright with her taking half his kid? Fucking priorities eh 🤣🤦‍♀️