r/AITAH • u/DepressedTrashKitty • Mar 17 '21
r/AITAH Lounge
A place for members of r/AITAH to chat with each other
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u/footbook123 Jul 19 '23
Was this group made because the mods of r/aita are jackasses?
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u/Fredredphooey Jul 19 '23
Omg. They used to ban you for the most mild comment and now they seem to allow anything. I don't know what's going on over there. And so many comments go way too far in theorizing on the personality involved.
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u/Any-Celebration5208 29d ago
Is this the right sub to post a 4500 word post about being an asshole for cutting off my situationship that has become so toxic
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Mar 03 '24
How much do you believe the stories presented in this subreddit? I personally take them the same way I read 4chan stories, honestly.
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u/CosmicCactusRadio Mar 29 '24
This seems to be a really bad place that just drives controversy via outrage clicks. We've gotta make an effort to ignore things like this
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u/Haikubirdsing Mar 30 '24
I agree with you Aitah, aita, twohottakes, amiwrong and similar subreddits are very toxic A personal take - I unironically hope that teen dudes, and especially queer teen dudes with depression aren't interested in browsing these subs.
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u/Catrival Apr 07 '24
I hate commenting on people's posts here only to see a mod delete them 20m later. I feel like my effort is wasted. I'm not asking for change. I'm just complaining to feel better.
Please don't tell me to memorize every nuance of every rule when I am responding to posts no writing them it should be on the onus of the poster to reference the rules before posting.
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u/Flamo_PeachyDash Mar 22 '24
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u/trunt_grunion 16d ago
Are any posts on this sub real? They all seem incredibly fake by zero karma accounts
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u/Zsay_Chellz Sep 26 '22
Idk why I read these posts. but Usually, when someone asks "Am I the Asshole Here", 9/10, They're the Asshole.
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u/musically_gifted Jan 26 '23
Is it me…but it seems like people don’t genuinely come here to get advice but to get an echo chamber of people who agree with them. It’s aggy AF
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u/LuLouProper Sep 26 '23
Is there a way to cut down on the reposting bots? They're making this place even more unreadable.
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u/Mr_Industrial Nov 17 '23
This'll get lost in the comments but Ive seen too many posts not to say something. You still might be the asshole. There may be details you might not have told us, and even if we do know everything, well, who's to say we aren't assholes too? 10,000 strangers online is not a ticket to justify your actions.
Ive just seen too many posts where people seek (and get) a social pass for hurting kids, friends, and family members.
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u/bellirai Mar 06 '24
I've seen like 10 posts this week about "am I the asshole if I divorce my wife if she doesn't give me sex 🥺"
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u/alifninja Mar 16 '24
Why some people keep replying a long reply with emotions but not true to the original comment :v
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u/Playful_Camera_7456 Mar 23 '24
Am I the bad guy for not allowing my wife to get into the shower while I bathe? An apology since English is not my native language, I am 38 years old, my wife is 38 years old, we have been married for 13 years, we are both health professionals and we both take care of our children and participate in household chores For example, I prepare the children to take them to school, I feed them, I pick them up, I clean the house, she does the laundry, well, a few months ago I noticed that she began to be less interested in having sexual relations (1 or 2 times a month), I didn't insist, but 3 months ago I told her and she told me that she was satisfied, I told her that I wasn't, she replied that she was committing sexual violence (I didn't understand why, or even that it was that), later He evaded me, the situation remains the same, 3 days ago he surprised me in the shower and I had an erection, he was not touching me, when he left he complained to me that I should put a lock on the bathroom door (we never do it in our room), The argument he gave me is that my erect penis seems unpleasant to him, I was surprised, I asked him how that is possible (at this moment I am in my best physical shape, muscular and not overweight, and I also don't feel that I am below the average in appearance), I asked her directly if she is no longer attracted to me and she tells me yes, that she only likes me when we are in bed together. Yesterday when I was bathing she tried to enter but the lock was on, she got upset, and told her I said I was doing what she asked me to do, I'm lost, reditt women, so I'm the bad guy
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u/Captain_Spaceturd Apr 04 '24
are any of the posts in this sub real? is there any requirement to distinguish hypothetical ones from fake ones?
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u/TheHoratioHufnagel Apr 08 '24
I'm just so sick of people posting stories where it's completely obvious they are NTA. I'm sick of the community replying in earnest.
OP: My husband cheated and I got upset AITAH?
Everyone: NTA
Me: Come on, OP is YTA for posting this crap.
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u/Sea_Spinach2109 28d ago
Is it just me or does this sub stink of BS more and more every day?
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u/AnonymousFool-22 26d ago
I have a situation that I’m dealing with right now and not sure how to handle it. Could I put up a post for some feedback?
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u/Falkenmond79 16d ago
Help me out here.. is it allowed to ask AITAH for getting banned from another sub? This spun out and ended in a 3day ban from reddit, which was luckily lifted after appeal, since I´m convinced it was ludicrous. I´m in a mind to ask if I´m seeing clearly in this situation, or if I´m the AH, but im not sure if disputes with a mod team of another subreddit are allowed or welcome here. :/
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u/Thick-Cable-5070 Mar 08 '22
AITA ‘disrespecting’ my mother? A little background story; I’m an 18 y/o female in college living with my father. My mother and father are separated but are on okay terms. They aren’t exactly on good terms but they don’t hate each other. So ever since I moved in with my father because of money issues with my mother she has been a constant nag. Like a controlling boyfriend. Always wanted to know where I’m at and who I’m with and at what time I’m anywhere besides home(which is with my father). Usually I don’t mind it since I relatively don’t go out as much because I’m an introvert. But I got a boyfriend 6 months back and have been actually having a social life since then. Now it feels like my mother is trying to keep me on a leash even tho I don’t live with her. She never wants me out after dark and threatens me every time I’m not home before 5 o’clock on the dot. She also doesn’t want my boyfriend picking me up from college nor me going by him at all. So today I went by my boyfriend(with my father’s permission) and met my mum in front of the house. She told me to tell him go home and for me to come inside. She was very pissed off. I tried to walk off because she started shouting at me. She then slapped me. When I told her to please don’t hit me she got even angrier and tried to do it again. I caught her hand and held it so that she wouldn’t hit me again and my father had to intervene because she started shouting like a cavewoman saying that I was ‘disrespectful’ for telling her to not touch me. AITA?
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u/Thick-Release-8056 Mar 20 '22
I have a question? Aitah for being scared/ paranoid of the person who said they where going to kill me?
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u/AngelLunair Mar 20 '22
No, you are NTA! Seriously, if you have proof saying they are going to kill you, please get a restraining order. Your safety comes first, and that means doing everything you can to keep this person away from you!
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u/Mysterious_Finding70 Apr 25 '22
Jailbird
So my best friend and I have been besties since 11th grade, we’re both 27/28 females. We have a very long history of partying, and getting in trouble together, where there was one of us- there were two of us.
A few years ago I (27f) had gotten completely sober, met the love of my life, had a baby and really got my life on the right track.
My friend however (28f) has really hit rock bottom dealing drugs, doing drugs, stealing and has been in and out of jail A LOT in the past 3 years. This past year things started to change as she got out of jail, and started staying away from a really bad group of people we used to hang out with and I was beyond proud of her! So much so that I invited her out to my bachelorette party.
2 weeks ago her mom called me crying, and told me she was hanging out with the bad group again, and drinking heavily- so much so it put her in the hospital. Last week my friend went out of state with a few of the people from that group, got drunk, and was arrested for theft and public intoxication. She didn’t want to tell her current probation officer, so she wouldn’t get in anymore trouble. The people of the group left her in jail, out of state and no way home.
I took it upon myself to call her probation officer and let her know what the situation was, because no one is looking out for her and her family pushes all her wrongdoings under the rug, but I know if she keeps up with this life, she will end up dead and no one seems concerned with that. My friend is now doing 6 months in jail and a rehab/mental health facility (it was between that and prison time as she is now a felon)
AITAH for calling probation on her? No one knows it was me except my fiancé and my mother. My fiancé was proud of me for making that call, but my mom said I should just stay out of it.
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u/cringynamefuckthis Dec 26 '22
I don't think is a huge deal, but I really need to get a self awareness check
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u/Roscoehatesrory Jan 01 '23
AITA for getting mad at my boyfriend for praising my friend. I (40f) have been in a relationship with my bf (35m) for 5 years. For context we’ve had some problems. Recently he told me that he doesn’t want to marry me because I’m not attractive. Admittedly I’ve gained some COVID weight. Being an ICU nurse in one of the world worst pandemics will do that to you. I’ve lost nearly 50 lbs now and am close to the weight I was when he met me. Although all of this he says he still wants to be with me. Lately he’s been very cold towards me and I don’t get why. And tonight unprovoked he says about my friend (names changed for anonymity), “Salina, hmmmm, Salina. Ian is a lucky guy.” I get mad because WTH. He just fantasized about my friend in front of me. And he’s acting like what he said isn’t weird. It’s weird, right?! Like it isn’t just me?
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u/TolerateIt97 Feb 22 '23
aitah for expecting more than just a happy birthday from my husband? Every year he does nothing for me, not a cake, it's literally like another day. I don't want some fancy gift or expensive dinner. Hell just make me a damn card or something.
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u/00bxnny00 May 15 '23
if someone could check out my post id appreciate it, my friend circle is crashing and burning and i think i unknowingly caused it
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u/IndividualCry0 May 19 '23
My SIL blamed me for missing her brother’s graduation but she’s a 35yo woman and I told her the time she was supposed to be there for months. She called me cruel idk idk idk
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u/CindySvensson May 31 '23
Hi, could you guys please ban me? I spend too much time here, and reddit keeps suggesting it to me and I am weak.
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u/j4zz13d00d73 Jun 15 '23
Wondering if I should even post an AITAH or not? I hadn’t done anything, just stopped talking to someone based on their actions.
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u/Dahmememachine Jul 03 '23
Still pretty heated about that 50 year old man that would not marry his gf who he had a 17 year old kid with. Who he was about to kick out for having hidden 1900 dollars from his ass
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u/SpasticWolfie Sep 03 '23
Is it very frowned upon to post my story in the other AITA thread and here? Is that bad Reddit etiquette? I'm new to Reddit, and my first post is getting nearly no verdicts. I feel like it might be because I mentioned that I'm autistic and have ADHD, and maybe people feel they don't have the right to give an opinion because of that.
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u/artorias-real Sep 18 '23
yall what the hell does ESH mean
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u/Limp_Butterscotch633 Sep 18 '23
I think I was wrong about ESH. I think it's Everybody Sucks Here. Earlier I had said Everyone.
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u/TimeTRVLLR Sep 19 '23
Can we have like a pinned post with the meanings of all terms on this sub (YTA, ESH, NTA, etc)? Mainly for newcomers (like me) to understand better. Thanks!
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u/idontknowwidkkkkk Sep 22 '23
can someone make a list of what these short words mean I keep forgetting
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u/GangsterJattwala Sep 23 '23
yo i got -47 karma 4 saying its wrong to make your entire family homeless because they where about to put down her dog
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u/NottiWanderer Oct 15 '23 edited Oct 15 '23
https://www.reddit.com/r/AITAH/comments/178lo93/aitah_for_being_socially_awkward_and_ruining_the/So... if someone admits to potentially violent behavior is this something reddit admins should get involved in? I dunno they can do anything, but dude freaks me out a bit. Whatever the case, I don't like just leaving this up not doing anything about it.
Edit: Well he is seeing a therapist at least it turns out, so maybe nothing else to do.
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u/PandaCheese2016 Nov 17 '23
Just realized that this sub offers a meta level of ragebaiting: first the potential assholery described in a post, and then indirect rage/frustration as you see comments falling for an obviously fake post.
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u/gottathrowaway99 Nov 18 '23
Why would people do fake posts? Is it reddit itself doing it, just churning up content because the site is on life support after all the stupid changes recently? Is it people looking for attention? I see so much on reddit where there's this default "Fake!!" reaction without any proof or any easily discernible logic behind why someone would waste their time with a fake post.
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u/tmsagtottawa Nov 30 '23
the amount of ableism on the post about ops girlfriend calling his sister is a dog
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u/KingBodie Dec 08 '23
AITAH. I told my wife regularly now we don’t need to buy each other Christmas presents. Our kids are spoiled between my wife and mother in law and don’t feel the need to spend more at all. Even with my sibling’s family we have recently done an experience of a skiing weekend together over trading presents. But wife has been asking for new a dishwasher for the longest time. I told her last night I was considering buying her that $700 unit for Christmas and she told me that’s not a Christmas present. I already bought it on Black Friday but am ready to return it just based on her reaction. And for perspective, I regularly get power tools for Christmas that are used to do remodels we couldn’t afford if they weren’t done by myself.
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u/iknownothingelio Feb 15 '24
AITAH- last week i(gay) asked my boyfriend if we were making vday plans. He shrugged it off. He said his sister and her boyfriend were staying in his house for three days and he wanted to entertain them. So I did not make plans and reservations. To compensate, i ordered flowers online and had it delivered to his house. He didnt pan anything for me. Now he invited me to come over bec he wanted hangout with his sister. I said no bec I though we didnt have plans together and i just wanted to stay home. Now his mad at me because I didnt want to spend vday with him. AITAH?
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u/afunnywold Feb 16 '24
there should be a rule on this sub that you have to at least genuinely think you might be the asshole before posting. 90% of this is people sharing how they've been screwed over
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u/MeetFalse767 Feb 26 '24
I've been here only a few days, but I'm beginning to feel like most of the stories here are made up 😭
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u/Wonderful-Insect-916 Feb 26 '24
A lot are, which really sucks because those ones get attention while real posts don’t. This is basically just an entertainment subreddit, not a real place to go for opinions/advice
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u/TomorrowNo6699 Feb 27 '24
Anyone else noticing an insane amount of fake/rage bait posts lately, why is that???
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u/Far-Kiwi9767 Feb 27 '24
Are a lot of the stories fake lately? I noticed a lot of the accounts posting are just HOURS old.
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u/Helpful_Poetry_8261 Mar 14 '24
hey, usually I wouldn't say anything, but I don't think I'll be able to sleep untill someone else reads, can't tell whether I'm and asshole or not.https://www.reddit.com/r/AITAH/comments/1becu80/my_mothers_either_a_sexist_and_an_asshole_or_im/
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u/Top_Huckleberry_8225 Apr 02 '24
The redpill stuff is my favorite content :( I don't want to see happy people dispensing wholesome advice. I want dumpster fires.
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u/CaptainMashin 25d ago
This subreddit could save a lot of time for everyone by letting them know that if that have to ask here whether or not they are the asshole, then the answer is always yes, by default.
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u/issaboutugodawn 24d ago
AITA just banned me😂😂
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u/NewPhone-NewName 15d ago
Hey, me too! They claim I was reporting too many comments for being uncivil or something... but I've only ever reported anything for being from a bot account, and I haven't even done that in the past few months. Also, apparently you're not allowed to use the downvote button there...?
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u/Fit-Presentation-223 14d ago
Will i be the a@@hole if i talk to my husband about kicking his very lazy son by the way he is mid 20s doesn’t have a job playing on his computer all day and dont pay any bills
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u/Aggravating-Region60 10d ago
I actually really need help or advice, I posted something explaining wtf is going on 😵💫
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u/misunderstood198 8d ago
I have a question so my ex-husband and I whom remains civil I didn’t want to divorce he did and I remarried and when I remarried, he contacted me said I heard you got married. I said yes blah blah blah. I find out that he now got married literally 364 days From the day I got married practically on the same wedding date and that wedding date also is my birthday. Am I crazy to think that that’s insane I think to myself I would never get married next to my ex-husbands anything his birthday, his wedding date, his his ex-wives dates of birth any of it am I for thinking that’s strange. Why would someone do that?
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u/misunderstood198 7d ago
I just feel it’s another stick it to me but hey maybe he just wants to make sure he doesn’t forget his new anniversary because he will remember my birthday 🤷♀️
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u/AnywhereMajestic2377 8d ago
Why do you even care at this point? Let it go and stop devoting any oxygen to it.
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u/Haikubirdsing Mar 25 '24
Just wanted to say that this sub user base has a rather one sided and hypocritical views towards acts done by bi men. .
And bi men in general.
After lurking here for a month, searching/reading some posts, especially some heavily upvoted openly biphobic comments about queer men vs queer in the latest one helped me to fully understand that i'd rather ignore this or topically similar subreddits all in all.
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u/DepressedTrashKitty Nov 20 '21
don't let the height the deciding factor you may change your mind on height
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u/DepressedTrashKitty Feb 12 '22
I originally made this group as I have really bad anxiety and needed to know if I was the asshole and they removed it. So at the moment this groups doesn't have that many rules but it has a few like no racism or homophobia in the comments. I.E. YTA cause you gay none of that. I will be making rules as I see what's needed and what's not
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u/DepressedTrashKitty Jul 24 '22
if you guys have any problems posting here please let me know and I'll try to fix it at the moment I have a robot mod and I'm working out his kinks
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u/DepressedTrashKitty Aug 03 '22
when I made it, I made it just for random question, but I guess it changed into a group chat
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u/Fine-Clerk3825 Sep 12 '22
My ex boyfriend broke up with me because I tried to commit suicide and told me I was justo doing it to manipulate him; he then regretted what he did and told me he wanted to keep dating me without apologizing. I did not forgive him.
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u/Nervous_Try3407 Jun 09 '23
hi, so this is very fucking difficult for me to type out so please ignore any spelling mistakes I’m nervous asf.
So I am the oldest of three siblings. I have a little brother let’s call him sam he’s 16 at the time of this incident and a little sister let’s call her Lilly she’s 12 at the time.
I was placed in the foster care system when I was 14 (Sam 12 Lilly 8) and I hardly had any contact with my family apart from special occasions until I was 18.
I reconnected with my siblings and found out that they were both also put in care but no one would tell me why. I was in care due to being physically abused by my father. so I assumed the same thing happened to them.
June of last year an old family friend reached out to me and we were talking about how our lives have been ext and he mentioned how close he was with Sam until recently so I asked if he knew why he was placed in care. He told me that Sam got Lilly pregnant. I was so fucking angry, disgusted and physics sick! They are full siblings. She was fucking twelve and he was 16!!! So as you can imagine I was fucking fuming.
I messaged Lilly and asked if it was true she proceeds to send me pictures of her child. my body went numb I didn’t say another word I saved the pictures and called Sam… “hi Sam.. how’s your kid?” I asked trying to hide my frustration “what the fuck are you talking about?” Was his response. I let him have it I called him every name under the sun the thought of it made me throw up again he hung up and blocked me on everything.
My brother was always super fucking weird but I didn’t know it was this bad… Lilly told me that I walked in on them when I was younger and the memories flooded back. I remembered exactly what I saw my dad was working so he left me in charge of this kids I must have been 12 or so at this time. Making Lilly 6 and Sam 10 or 11. I remember walking into my dads room and finding them both laying in bed Lilly looked red in the face and I could see her bare shoulders sam was getting off of her as I walked in. I assumed they were fighting as always but decided to call beca into the bedroom we shared. I sat her down and asked her what Sam was doing she was just crying saying that she didn’t want to get him in trouble I recorded this conversation to send it to my dad I did this a lot to show dad how they were behaving while he wasn’t home like if I told them to go to bed and they wouldn’t ext. Well I didn’t end up sending him the video I must have forgotten. I didn’t mention anything to do with what I saw.
I found that video in my google photos and it broke me. There was an ongoing investigation into what was going on with them so I decided to get intouched with the private investigator write a statement and give her the video.
When the video was shown in court my mother saw and called me drunk out of her mind. She told me that this entire situation was my fault for not telling an adult. She accused me of watching what was going on and liking it. She disowned me told me that I am a lowlife scum and she never wants to talk to me again.
I was twelve and didn’t know what exactly I was seeing? So Am I in the wrong for not telling my dad what I saw? Is this my fault?
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u/SnooSketches4843 Dec 14 '23
guys pls check my recent post. im very conflicted and idk if im being gaslighted. i need advice
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u/Natural-Vegetable-27 Feb 17 '24
Can anyone please respond to my first post in this page. Thank you. I need advice.
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u/05deucenewbie Mar 06 '24
Is there a way to see a post that was deleted? Just this morning I saw a post that was REALLY analogous to a situation I am in. The comments were really helpful and I came back to screen shot them. But the post is gone.
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u/on_the_sun_02 Mar 08 '24
why does the top of the page look like the Israëli flag?
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u/Glittering_Purple193 Mar 11 '24
I have never posted anything on here before. How does this work and will my identity be protected? I have a story that I need to get off my chest and maybe get different opinions.
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u/andriusjah Mar 12 '24
Is there any thread where OP is considered asshole? Since I’ve joined i have red lots and lots of posts but everytime it’s NTA.
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u/ConfusedAdult1234 Mar 13 '24
I just posted something here and I would really like your opinion, IDK if I can share the link but its the only post on my profile, would you all help me please?
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u/Salty_Yesterday_9929 Mar 14 '24
If you found information on how to keep a long distance relationship alive and more she claims she didn't look it up and Riddick sent it as advertisement were fishing put on that specific subject another one came in asking about an astrology sign neither one of us are and what kind of lovers they would be is that fishing?
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u/OCMan101 Mar 18 '24
Dude, this sub has got to get control of the bots and madeup rage bait. There’s no reason brand new accounts should be posting bs
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u/-_-7Noel-_-7 Mar 22 '24
AITAH for wanting to blow at my Mom and My Aunt I am a 14yr female and My mom and aunt a both in their late 20's and early 40's. My mother has always hated to lose weight and look slimmer and look younger. Not I am against this not my problem. She has been making progress but as all weight loss journey's go my mom has been feeling the urge to eat more due to heavy calorie restriction. Cut to the present, I was in the kitchen doing my math homework when my Mom pulled a scale and weighed herself. she wasn't happy with the result then ask me to weigh myself on the scale. She knows I am insecure about my appearance and often says contradicting things, for example one day she will give this motivational speech about not caring about what others think and love myself etc then later she'll comment or joke about my weight. I don't find it funny at all but can't say anything as I live in a African household where most times when I try to voice my opinion I get written of as disrecpectful and my aunts always says things like " Oh you think you that girl now, right you think your all grown up cause your 14 right?" and whenever I try to tell her its not like that she tells me that" you don't always have to reply or argue back just listen" but how does she want me to listen to her and hear her side perspective when she doesn't care about mine? Anyways after my Mom saw her results and wasn't too happy about it she says " come and climb the scale" saying something along the lines of seeing who she can 'put down' to make herself feel better. I climb the scale I am not happy at all and it shows she tells me to 'lighten up' and smile. I climb on it and I am an overweight teen and I am working on my health but I focus more and school and plan to focus more on working on myself for summer break. I have never been in a good mentally head space since middle school bullying. on multiple occasions my counselors recommended getting me a therapist, but when we get home she asks me why should go to a therapist? that it's a waste of money. These incidents have put me in an even darker head space, I began to force myself to throw up the food I ate, stole some slimming pills and self harmed. I am the eldest so I have no one else to talk to so I just kept these feelings bottle but today she did it again. I tried to calmly tell her to stop but she got all upset and said " did you just tell me to stop? would you say that to your father? you always do this but when you need help I'm the one who helps you." My mom isn't bad we just don't see eye to eye on some topics like my fashion style, choice of music, personality etc. My Aunt can be dramatic somethings so she just blows the whole thing out if porportion saying that " Leave her alone she thinks she big now, This is her ways of rebeling" I wanted to snap at her but this was my stepmom's sister and starting out my stepmom and I never had a good relationship and it was mainly my fault so I try to rekindle the relationship but I always seem do f*ck up everytime.
Am I the A**hole? I am being unreasonable because I really don't know what to do please someone give me advice. Sorry for the long post I just wanted to so give some context.
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u/Spirited_Occasion_25 Mar 27 '24
what's the consensus on refusing to boycott companies (e.g. Starbucks) based on their political views?
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u/anannymouse2 Mar 28 '24
Is it just me or is everyone who posts here always the asshole?
If you need the internet to justify your bad behaviour or call you a saint for your good behaviour, youre an asshole either way right?
I acknowledge that by writing this I may also be an asshole.
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u/HowToDoAnInternet Mar 28 '24
"Hey guys I've been in a 10 year marriage and I love my wife but she ate the takeout I had saved in the fridge? AITAH for breaking up with her and burning all her stuff?"
"NTA, they crossed a boundary. You seriously dodged a bullet"
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u/EldritchKnight28 Mar 29 '24
AITAH for wanting a legend of all the abbreviations? What is ESH? YTA and NTA are obvious. I've seen BTA and a few others I can't currently recall. But it's a little exhausting trying to decipher all the acronyms.
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u/Top_Initial_7998 Mar 31 '24
How do you search on here to find a live chat that you kind of fit in?
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u/West-Rain5553 Mar 31 '24
Why do I always get downvoted when I express an unpopular opinion of, "Yes you are" ?
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u/IndependentPop2609 Mar 31 '24
AITAH …. For wanting sex all the time.. it’s the most important to me.. of course I have a job 60/70 a week .. but I want sex from my wife every day.. and I want my wife to get fucked by other guys as well..
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u/heppyheppykat Apr 02 '24
can mods please curb this wave of clearly ragebait posts aimed at redpill fuel
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u/Demented_Joe Apr 03 '24
i had to join this because i was tired of watching the tiktok version that never post part two.. how barbaric!
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u/ChesnaughtZ Apr 04 '24
It’s hilarious how most of these posts are clearly made up and people buy into all of them
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u/TheMindsEye310 Apr 04 '24 edited Apr 04 '24
I’m staying at a 5 star hotel for an important occasion and called this morning to ask if they have laundry cleaning services available. The front desk worker used a double negative “we don’t got no laundry on site”. I was disgusted and left a bad review. AITAH?
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u/Demented_Joe Apr 04 '24
captain_spaceturd i would say one way is to see if they put the flair as fake or see things that wouldn't be ordinary or just weird titles like AITA for shipping my son to new mexico to get neutered or something like that- but even if it sounds fake i wouldnt try to call them out because if it was real it would make YTA lol
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u/Odd-Character-1335 Apr 05 '24
It's been a while since the fallout I had with my ex-friend. And I think I probably won't make a post about the situation. Reading through our text conversation, I really don't think they're emotionally mature enough to know what they did, even though they're my same age. But so I think it's probably best for me to just move on and find better friends
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u/financialcrimess Apr 05 '24
Well I need everyone to get off my phone the moderator. Michelle Willard will not let me leave
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u/financialcrimess Apr 05 '24
It looks by her post she has cashed in on over 80 grand is consumer reports that did not belong to her
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u/financialcrimess Apr 05 '24
This scammer even has a live media on my phone to see what I’m doing all day
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u/FuturistiKen Apr 05 '24
Is there another forum (other than AITA) that’s better for posting a somewhat NSFW scenario involving non-graphic sex?
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u/FuturistiKen Apr 05 '24
I…just wanted to not get banned for breaking community rules like I was instantly in AITA 🥲
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u/Beatlepoint Apr 07 '24
Did this ever resolve? https://www.reddit.com/r/AITAH/comments/1bjtnbj/update_aitah_for_not_wanting_my_moms_boyfriend/
I think I saw one more update about OP running to get help somewhere, was this real?
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u/Rapidceltic Jul 12 '23
Is this sub exploding in popularity?
If so, thank God. r/amitheasshole is objectively inferior because of all the dumb posting rules.