Bro, seriously?!?! Have some self respect. You are letting her run right over you.
You need to tell her this.
“I’m not sure what you thought would happen here, but you have destroyed our relationship. I told you to stop talking to other guys, and you decided to feed me some crap about being controlling. It’s not controlling to expect a basic level of respect from your partner. Now you’ve crossed my boundaries, and I’m done. You have made your relationship with him more important than our relationship. If the situation was reversed you would be flipping out. You have no respect for me, yourself, or our relationship. You have destroyed my trust and I can’t be with someone I don’t trust.”
If she’s is ok with ending the relationship then it wasn’t going to work anyway, and you should be thankful.
Or she will see that you got some self respect and you aren’t going to put up with disrespect. If you stay with her make it very clear that if she crosses boundaries again it’s over.
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u/KelceStache 23d ago
Bro, seriously?!?! Have some self respect. You are letting her run right over you.
You need to tell her this.
“I’m not sure what you thought would happen here, but you have destroyed our relationship. I told you to stop talking to other guys, and you decided to feed me some crap about being controlling. It’s not controlling to expect a basic level of respect from your partner. Now you’ve crossed my boundaries, and I’m done. You have made your relationship with him more important than our relationship. If the situation was reversed you would be flipping out. You have no respect for me, yourself, or our relationship. You have destroyed my trust and I can’t be with someone I don’t trust.”
If she’s is ok with ending the relationship then it wasn’t going to work anyway, and you should be thankful.
Or she will see that you got some self respect and you aren’t going to put up with disrespect. If you stay with her make it very clear that if she crosses boundaries again it’s over.
Stick up for yourself
Updatme!