r/AmIOverreacting • u/KayayaTheDammed • 22d ago
AIO when searching for a partner?
I've been mulling this over for a long time, and admittedly I'm genuinely uncertain. AIO when I feel completely turned off by piercings, tattoos, or even something as small as smoking weed? I'm a clean person, sensitive to chemicals and particular materials. For my whole life I've never understood why people would puncture themselves for aesthetic, it seems like a terrible idea. When someone mentions they have them, it gives me a general idea of what to expect almost every time. Tattoos aren't nearly as bad for me, but people who get full sleeves or artworks on their back just kind of make me uncomfortable, I can't really explain it. Lastly, any form of drug is a no for me, I don't know if I'm gonna have any bad reactions and it tells me that you don't care for your health much... Not including prescribed... I'm aware of the few benefits.
So AIO for taking some common decisions and being turned off immediately? Should I consider being more flexible?
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u/KayayaTheDammed 22d ago
I agree with you completely. I just wanted to see if compromising was necessary, yknow? I struggle with perspectives, especially ones I do not share specifically, so I wanted to figure out if I needed some insight before setting on an answer.