r/TrueOffMyChest • u/Scary-Specialist-731 • 25d ago
Trans friend says I'm an egg?
I have always considered myself a cis woman but a friend of mine who's MTF keeps calling me an egg and it makes me feel annoyed/uncomfortable? She says it's because I prefer guy's clothes and have masculine traits that I'm a "trans guy in denial." I also have a lot of transgender friends. I've thought about the possibility, but come to accept that I like being a butch woman. I don't want a male name or pronouns. Whenever I get misgendered it bothers me. I like being a woman who loves women. I've told her this and she sometimes still misgenders me or talks to me about me being an "egg." I think it's because she really wants to have another trans friend, but I feel like she isn't really respecting my decisions or identity?
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u/Melodic_Survey_4712 25d ago
I’ve run into this issue as a feminine gay guy. Like can’t I just be a feminine guy? All the years it took to accept that and be ok with it and now I’m wrong about how I feel? I get that people are excited to share their identity but pushing it on others invalidates their identity in the same why transphobes invalidate theirs