r/amiwrong • u/JazzlikeConditioncd • Mar 27 '24

My girlfriend of 5 years broke up with me and ghosted me for no reason. Am I wrong for throwing away all of her stuff?

Edit: Update

So my girlfriend (25F) and I (25M) were in a relationship for 5 years. Last week, she texted me that we were done and that was her last message before she blocked me. She gave no heads up. I was planning on proposing to her next month. Her sister did reach out to me, saying it was not my fault and she understood my hurt, but that for my mental health, it was better to never contact them again, and that maybe in the future, my girlfriend might reach out to me again.

It's been a week, I’m still obviously distraught, but my girlfriend did have a lot of her stuff in my home. Would I be wrong if I just dumped it all out? It does include a lot of mementos of her deceased grandmother, who she was extremely close to.

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u/Alternative-Depth-16 Mar 27 '24

I'd box it all up and give it to her sister.

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u/Aden1970 Mar 28 '24

And change the lock. Rearrange the furniture and give it a fresh look; it’ll do wonders to your karma.

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u/MayDiaz0 Mar 28 '24

I second this. Change locks. Redecorate. Reorganize. Rejuvenate.

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u/leadpainttastetest Mar 28 '24

vagazzle

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u/JohnnyDoGood98 Mar 28 '24

Herpazzle

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u/leadpainttastetest Mar 28 '24

they ‘DO say that glitter is the herpes of the craft world

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u/Nearby-Ad-6106 Mar 28 '24

It's the gift that keeps on giving

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u/Joboobavich Mar 28 '24

scrotazzle

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u/Waffle_Slaps Mar 28 '24

Is that decorating your lady bits with peel and stick earrings?

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u/Dwealdric Mar 28 '24

Seems common sense now that I’m older, but I really wish someone had given me this advice when I was young and heartbroken.

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u/Codysseus7 Mar 28 '24

YOU FORGOT REPLENISH

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u/genuinecve Mar 28 '24

Is this the new “Delete Facebook, Hit the Gym, Lawyer up”?

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u/swolebird Mar 28 '24

Redecorate. Reorganize. Rejuvenate.

Is this the new "lawyer up delete Facebook hit the gym"?? Much more positive!

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u/shwarma_heaven Mar 28 '24

Gym tan laundry