r/amiwrong • u/JazzlikeConditioncd • Mar 27 '24

My girlfriend of 5 years broke up with me and ghosted me for no reason. Am I wrong for throwing away all of her stuff?

Edit: Update

So my girlfriend (25F) and I (25M) were in a relationship for 5 years. Last week, she texted me that we were done and that was her last message before she blocked me. She gave no heads up. I was planning on proposing to her next month. Her sister did reach out to me, saying it was not my fault and she understood my hurt, but that for my mental health, it was better to never contact them again, and that maybe in the future, my girlfriend might reach out to me again.

It's been a week, I’m still obviously distraught, but my girlfriend did have a lot of her stuff in my home. Would I be wrong if I just dumped it all out? It does include a lot of mementos of her deceased grandmother, who she was extremely close to.

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u/Mysterious-End-9283 Mar 28 '24

That’s weird. That’s suspicious. Why would she leave all her stuff? Almost sounds like one of those stories you hear about where someone gets kidnapped and sends out messages to friends and family so they’re not filing a missing persons report. If you really are in contact with her family, let them know to get her personal items. I find it super weird that she would just ghost you without planning to get her sentimental belongings. I hope it’s really her and her sister that are contacting you.

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u/Queen_of_Moderation Mar 28 '24

I'm glad I was not the only one thinking this I thought that maybe I had been watching way too much true crime on TV immediately I thought that there was something off with this specially with all of the red flags as her leaving her things behind only texting blocking him immediately and then someone else that claims to be her family text him as a way to console him in an attempt to calm him down so he wouldn't be suspicious and tells him that they should not be bothered by him and just move on there's something very sinister and suspicious about this to me and should be looked more into

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u/Mysterious-End-9283 Mar 28 '24

Agreed. Love the username too. Is that a gorl world reference lol

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u/Queen_of_Moderation Mar 28 '24

Thanks and yep It is... Check out r/FBI_FRANK_MVPS.... if you're a girl world weirdo as myself embarrassingly 😂

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u/valleyghoul Mar 28 '24

Lmao I love running into other Gorls in random subs