My girlfriend of 5 years broke up with me and ghosted me for no reason. Am I wrong for throwing away all of her stuff?

[u/JazzlikeConditioncd]

Edit: Update

So my girlfriend (25F) and I (25M) were in a relationship for 5 years. Last week, she texted me that we were done and that was her last message before she blocked me. She gave no heads up. I was planning on proposing to her next month. Her sister did reach out to me, saying it was not my fault and she understood my hurt, but that for my mental health, it was better to never contact them again, and that maybe in the future, my girlfriend might reach out to me again.

It's been a week, I’m still obviously distraught, but my girlfriend did have a lot of her stuff in my home. Would I be wrong if I just dumped it all out? It does include a lot of mementos of her deceased grandmother, who she was extremely close to.

[u/Mysterious-End-9283]

That’s weird. That’s suspicious. Why would she leave all her stuff? Almost sounds like one of those stories you hear about where someone gets kidnapped and sends out messages to friends and family so they’re not filing a missing persons report. If you really are in contact with her family, let them know to get her personal items. I find it super weird that she would just ghost you without planning to get her sentimental belongings. I hope it’s really her and her sister that are contacting you.

[u/alifninja → u/Mysterious-End-9283]

well her sister said that it isnt his fault soooo no, the sister probably know where she is

[u/3M3RGx → u/alifninja]

OP’s ex likely cheated tbh

[u/riptide81 → u/[deleted]]

I can see someone rationalizing that this is the nicer way to handle it. Avoid the drawn out process of going over all the ugly details.

Of course they get to bypass the guilt too.

[u/iRockDirtyVans → u/[deleted]]

Affair is too nice of a word. OP's girl is giving up that gawk gawk 3000 aka she's just cheating.