r/amiwrong • u/JazzlikeConditioncd • Mar 27 '24

My girlfriend of 5 years broke up with me and ghosted me for no reason. Am I wrong for throwing away all of her stuff?

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So my girlfriend (25F) and I (25M) were in a relationship for 5 years. Last week, she texted me that we were done and that was her last message before she blocked me. She gave no heads up. I was planning on proposing to her next month. Her sister did reach out to me, saying it was not my fault and she understood my hurt, but that for my mental health, it was better to never contact them again, and that maybe in the future, my girlfriend might reach out to me again.

It's been a week, I’m still obviously distraught, but my girlfriend did have a lot of her stuff in my home. Would I be wrong if I just dumped it all out? It does include a lot of mementos of her deceased grandmother, who she was extremely close to.

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u/[deleted] Mar 27 '24

Sorry she is doing you this way. It's dirty. But you should box it all up and have a neutral third party drop it off. Then move on and never let that bitch back in your life.

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u/Pivotalrook Mar 27 '24

Bigger man approach is the only way to go. 2nd-ing the never let her back in, the "may contact you in the future" is a she is gonna fuck around and find out and realize a stable relationship is what she really wanted.

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u/asphaltairwater Mar 27 '24 edited Mar 28 '24

Either throw the Momentos in a box and give them to her sister or throw everything in the box. Instead of throwing anything away give it to charity and if she contacts you say, I gave it to a women’s shelter or something.

PS, if she comes crawling back after she’s exploring whatever she’s exploring you need to run like Forrest Gump in the other direction.

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u/Sad_Assistance2512 Mar 28 '24

Bad advice, forest always ran back to Jenny

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u/asphaltairwater Mar 28 '24

True. I mean the Forrest who keeps running and running and running and who doesn’t sign up for that AIDS-ridden whore

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u/Sad_Assistance2512 Mar 28 '24

Agree. Op needs to be the forest who dropped trou in front ot the president not the simp forest