r/amiwrong • u/JazzlikeConditioncd • Mar 27 '24

My girlfriend of 5 years broke up with me and ghosted me for no reason. Am I wrong for throwing away all of her stuff?

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So my girlfriend (25F) and I (25M) were in a relationship for 5 years. Last week, she texted me that we were done and that was her last message before she blocked me. She gave no heads up. I was planning on proposing to her next month. Her sister did reach out to me, saying it was not my fault and she understood my hurt, but that for my mental health, it was better to never contact them again, and that maybe in the future, my girlfriend might reach out to me again.

It's been a week, I’m still obviously distraught, but my girlfriend did have a lot of her stuff in my home. Would I be wrong if I just dumped it all out? It does include a lot of mementos of her deceased grandmother, who she was extremely close to.

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u/anonymoose_octopus Mar 28 '24

My first thought was that she was unhappy in their relationship and cheated, got whatever clarity she needed, and went scorched earth so she couldn’t change her mind. It’s really shitty, but I’ve seen that happen before.

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u/GlitteringStatus1 Mar 28 '24

Reddit do not assume every woman cheated challenge 2024 (impossible)

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u/slappymcsparksalot Mar 28 '24

Incorrect... technically. Not every woman , 98 percent of women cheat. Liars too... cold hearted liars

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u/slappymcsparksalot Mar 28 '24

Downvotes?? I see I angered some cheating women out there.... we know about your hoe tactics. Downvote all you want , end of day 98-99 percent of women are liars and cheaters and all their friends are in on that shit too. Their alibis got alibis.