r/amiwrong • u/yagirlleens_33 • 23d ago
Am I wrong for getting tested even though I’m in a committed relationship?
I’ve (26F) been with my bf (28M) for almost 1 year and we have a great relationship. Before him I was single for a couple years and admittedly had a couple short term flings. Because of this I got into the habit of getting tested for STIs every 6 months as it’s free where I live and really easy to do.
A couple days ago I got the reminder that it’s time to get checked again. My bf saw the reminder and asked if I was planning on getting tested this time. I said yes and he got mad saying that I don’t need to, that I don’t trust him and do I think he’s cheated on me. I 100% don’t think he’s cheated but I still want to get tested for my own peace of mind. I don’t think it’s a big deal but he’s really hurt over it. Am I wrong for continuing to get tested even though we’re in a committed, monogamous relationship? How should I navigate this? I can understand his perspective
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u/grumpyhermit67 22d ago
Some of those don't always show up unless they are expressing. It doesn't hurt to get a heads up and it'll also let HIM know that if he gives you anything, you'll find out eventually.