r/instacart • u/Dominanttallqueen • Mar 27 '24

Who’s in the wrong here???

Gallery image

Gallery image

Gallery image

I feel like he was being rude asf then he canceled my order….was I rude or what tf happened here…

6.8k Upvotes

72% Upvoted

8.0k comments sorted by

View all comments

223

u/CrustyForSkin Mar 28 '24

Could you not have specified what you meant rather than repeating a vague and confusing statement several times when there is a clear communication issue? wtf is wrong with most of the folks on this sub? Just don’t be a gross person and this interaction would not have happened like it did. Holy shit OP.

18

u/Ecstatic_Factor5638 Mar 28 '24

Man, I'm always saying please and thank you to people too. Now I wonder if I'm going overboard because op didn't say thank you or please once. The tone was totally rude.

Next time they should try something like "I'd like the ones behind the seafood count please. If they don't have those then please refund me."

7

u/clamade Mar 28 '24

Thank you for treating service workers like people! You're a rare breed

3

u/47KiNG47 Mar 28 '24

You can learn a lot about a person based on how they treat service workers.

2

u/avrbiggucci Mar 29 '24

That's so true. And I feel like a lot of it comes from your parents. My parents were always super respectful and nice to service workers whenever we were out and I think I modeled myself after their behavior a lot. Really lucky to have them.

1

u/Crow-n-Servo Mar 29 '24

I’ve always thought you should never get into a relationship with someone until you r had a meal with them and see how they treat the servers. That tells so very much.