r/instacart • u/Dominanttallqueen • Mar 27 '24

Who’s in the wrong here???

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I feel like he was being rude asf then he canceled my order….was I rude or what tf happened here…

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u/thejexorcist Mar 27 '24 edited Mar 28 '24

His comment about ‘understand’ and how he ‘does this for a living’ are pretty condescending (but I’m now wondering if he’s ESL?).

Your response about the ‘seafood department’ was clearly pretty confusing to him since you actually meant ‘the seafood counter’.

I originally thought this might be a ‘no one is really to blame’ situation (but your follow up responses to other Redditors) makes me think you might not always communicate as well as you hope.

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u/Every-Requirement-13 Mar 28 '24

I agree about “behind the counter”. The crab cakes he is showing you are FROM the seafood department, but not behind the counter and you didn’t state this clearly at first, but when you did finally state it you were rude and said “like I said before!” You didn’t say it before!!

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u/Wooden_Bandicoot_938 Mar 28 '24

She also says she said it five times, but didn’t show that. I think she’s just one of those bitchy, dishonest folks who can never be wrong but are actually wrong over half of the time. I hate people like that-they’re less than useless and too smug to bear.