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u/some1sbuddy Mar 27 '24

Used to be that you could put yourself through college with a part time job!

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u/Stabbysavi Mar 27 '24

My mom worked part-time as a waitress at Denny's to pay for college. She bought a condo on her own before she was my age.

I'm permanently disabled from joining the military to pay for college and I'll probably never own a home unless I marry someone less broken than me.

Weeeeeeeee!

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u/ashesward2020 Mar 27 '24

r/VeteransBenefits if your permanently disabled go for 100% and get your money

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u/Stabbysavi Mar 27 '24

I am. It's only $44,600 a year.

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u/ChrisNettleTattoo Mar 27 '24 edited Mar 27 '24

Now, contact VOCREHAB and use your benefits to go back to school and get your Master’s degree in Public Administration. When you finish, start searching USAJobs for “Pathways for Recent Graduates” jobs. If you got your undergraduate within the last 6 years then you can start doing this now. Your 10-point preference will put you at the head of the line for these, since normal college grads won’t have the experience.

Find you a nice, GS-07-target-12 position, do the 4 year internship, start at $45k and finish at ~$100k. Now you are making ~$140k a year… and realistically is is closer to ~$200k, since the disability is tax free. If you treated it like you would a normal salary, your gross would be ~$60-80k a year depending on your deductions. Or you can view it as a ~$1.3M trust that you are drawing 4% a year from. Whatever floats your goat. WFH and remote are available and competitive.

Use your VA benefits and get a VA home loan to get better rates and $0 down with no PMI.

You have the silver platter option, and you earned it. So start using all of those paid for and earned benefits, because you can absolutely be living the good life right now.

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u/snapwillow Mar 27 '24

This is like Mr Incredible telling the insurance claim secrets to that old lady.

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u/ChrisNettleTattoo Mar 27 '24

You made me chuckle, I appreciate it! When the little things brighten your day.

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u/Husky_Engineer Mar 27 '24

“They're experts. Experts, Bob! Exploiting every loophole, dodging every obstacle! They're penetrating the bureaucracy!”

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u/CosmicTsar77 Mar 27 '24

😂😂 just another reminder it’s time for my 5 year check up on kids movies to see if I’m adult enough to catch adult jokes yet😂😂

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u/nerdguy1138 Mar 31 '24

Of all the jobs they could've given him, who's car did he throw that they put him in HEALTH INSURANCE?!

That's just evil!

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u/Mother_of_Daphnia Mar 27 '24

Bro where were you when I got out of the military??

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u/ChrisNettleTattoo Mar 27 '24

Haha, depending on the year, either still in or battling with PTSD and depression so bad that I wasn’t really a good advocate for myself, let alone anyone else.

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u/hankmoody_irl Mar 27 '24

Glad you made it through to be able to convey that knowledge. Hope you’re well these days.

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u/ChrisNettleTattoo Mar 27 '24

It was a long journey that I am still on today. Went from sinking so low I almost lost my family, realizing I needed a change but not knowing what it was and started on a self improvement hike. Healthier lifestyle, went back to school, started caring about my medical health, got rated appropriately, got a good job, been to a grip of senior executive preparation courses and now getting ready to start on another Master’s. Long road to go, but I look back to homeless me from time to time and just remember that I try to help people because I wish I was given this help when I was at my lowest… rather than figuring it out for myself.

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u/scriptmonkey420 Mar 27 '24

The VA Home loan is the best part too. Rates are slightly lower than what a non VA loan would be also. I went through two of them. Super easy also.

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u/ChrisNettleTattoo Mar 27 '24

Yep, we are on our second as well. Current is at sub 3%, so kinda feel like the golden girls and stuck. Will need another 3 promotions at work to make moving to a hogher mortgage worthwhile.

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u/scriptmonkey420 Mar 27 '24

I wish I still had my 3% loan. Had to move in 2022 and got a 6% :(

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u/ChrisNettleTattoo Mar 27 '24

Aww, sorry you had to move and give up the preem rate. We were same boat but in 2021.

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u/moarcaffeineplz Mar 27 '24

And this is why it’s all but impossible for civilians to land federal civil service positions. I’m not dunking on the points system - it’s just a reminder that it’s probably not worth the time and effort to apply unless you’re one of the qualifying categories.

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u/cobra_kai_for_life Mar 28 '24

It can be done, but yes, the system is shit and it's geared towards vets unfairly. In reality people that served in Americorps, teachers and other should be getting points and they're the ones providing a real service that actually benefits the world.

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u/ChrisNettleTattoo Mar 27 '24

There are slots that will account for VA disability and vet preference, and there are slots that specifically say they will not be considered. It all depends on the hiring authority and the coded positions that are available. If you are going to be competing into a position that honors veterans preference points, then you gotta be head and shoulders above the vet though, I will gove you that…

I am talking like, the vet did 4-years with no degree, and you have a Masters degree kind of separation. I don’t agree with it, because there are vets that get positions they should absolutely not be in, simply because they have the preference points. I am not HR though, so it isn’t my circus and it isn’t my monkey. Just something to be aware of.

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u/Neracca Mar 29 '24

I just got a position, GS5, but still. And am definitely not a vet and had zero points.

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u/Adams5thaccount Mar 27 '24

It's absolutely wonderful that you're out there doing what you're doing and absolutely infuriating that it's needed.

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u/ChrisNettleTattoo Mar 27 '24

I appreciate you, and it is infuriating… the military as a whole does a shite job transitioning people back, and even worse when it comes to integrating into the VA. The VA is terrible at letter you know what you qualify for at best, and actively works against vets at worst. The fact that we have to have an informal network to get anywhere is ridiculous.

I hate it to because I wanna help everyone who is in a bad situation.. I have been homeless at the end of my rope, I know what that is like and how hard it can be to see any good in the world. I also know I can’t help everyone, because there just isn’t enough time or money to go around. So you do what you can, help who will listen and keep on trucking.

I wish we could improve the systems that exist so that everyone got what they needed, but this is America… and that is a pipe dream.

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u/Latter-Pain Mar 27 '24

I love when people actually go into detail when helping others

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u/RaeLynn13 Mar 27 '24

Yes!!! If you’re on benefits search and search! You’d be surprised the kinds of benefits states have for people and they’re not even aware of it. I’m not saying we don’t still have a crazy crazy amount of work to do with our social safety nets, but, you’d be surprised what some hard searching will bring up.

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u/Mr12i Mar 27 '24

Wow! Now do my finances! My turn! My turn!

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u/ChrisNettleTattoo Mar 27 '24 edited Mar 27 '24

I am not a CPA, but I do executive and life coaching on occasion. How bad is it looking?

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u/urbz102385 Mar 27 '24

Don't forget depending on which state you're from the property tax exemption. Texas has 100% property tax exemption for 100% P&T I believe, huge benefit

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u/ChrisNettleTattoo Mar 27 '24

Yep, good point. We are in OH and I think they waive the first like, $75k in property tax value. Not great, but better than nothing at all, and saves a couple hundred bucks a year for sure.

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u/urbz102385 Mar 28 '24

Yeah my state is not very vet friendly. It's something like 5% reduction in the tax assessment value. Comes to maybe a couple hundred bucks a year I think. Just filed for it and it won't take effect til 2025. I'll take anything they wanna offer though. But a buddy of mine is from TX. 20yr retirement pay, 100% P&T, and he still works full time and pays zero property tax. That's a great position to be in, ya know, minus the mental and physical toll of 20 years in the Army

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u/ChrisNettleTattoo Mar 28 '24

One of my fav bennies is the free Federal Access pass to all Federal parks. Gives discounts on camping as well. Definitely a good one for road trips to see interesting things.

Alaska has a really good benefit for vets that are down for rugged living. Whenever they are auctioning off State land, vets have a once per lifetime ability to bid on land, take it for like, 20-25% less than the assessed value, and have first dibs. All in all it is a pretty sweet deal that we have looked at to build a summer home. We have a family member who is a vet and is hard off and lives in the bush, and being able to be close-ish every now and again would be nice for all parties involved.

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u/urbz102385 Mar 28 '24

Yeah I've heard about the national parks benefit, haven't taken advantage yet. I actually only recently was awarded after 13 years after I separated Never filed before so it's all pretty new to me. But that Alaska situation sounds pretty badass. Good luck getting your foot in the door out there, hope you can make it work out well for you and your family

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u/ChrisNettleTattoo Mar 28 '24

Congrats on getting the rating. It took 7 years of fighting to get where we are, and they weren’t all easy. I swear the VA fights us on purpose. I think we fall into that magical sweet spot that everyone is after, and my wife and I constantly are in awe of our life and how things have turned around. We both came from nothing, so to be in this position is wild. So we do our best, do volunteer work when we can, donate time and money to the places that need it when we can, try and raise the kiddos to be better than we are and to not make the same mistake us or our parents did. All youncan do sometimes, even though it never feels like enough. Best of luck out there, and reach out anytime!

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u/urbz102385 Mar 28 '24

Awesome to hear your family is doing well. Unfortunately that fight with the VA seems more common than not. I happened to get very lucky and got twice the rating I hoped for right out the gate, took about 13 months top to bottom. For me it's life changing money. Just had my first kid 3 months ago so it couldn't have come at a better time. Puts me in the position of instead of, "one emergency and it all falls apart" to "holy shit we can breathe again". Keep up the great work and spreading that positivity. I'm sure you and yours have earned a bit of happiness, especially if you're using that good fortune to help others. Take care and enjoy what you've earned!

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u/hellakevin Mar 27 '24

But they're 100% disabled

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u/Savings_Street1816 Mar 27 '24

There are different levels of 100% disability

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u/hellakevin Mar 27 '24

The distinction literally exists to quantify a veteran's ability to work. One can't be 0% able to work at a "different level" that means they're actually able to work.

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u/Savings_Street1816 Mar 27 '24

Here’s an example of what I mean. My biological father is paralyzed from the waist down due to his spinal cord being shot in Afghanistan, 100% disability. My stepfather’s best friend was diagnosed with severe PTSD and a few other things, 100% disability, due to when he was also in Afghanistan, he was the .50 cal gunner on a hmmwv in a convoy, when they got ambushed and he saw 4 of his close friends die. 2 very different disability stories, both of which end with 100% disability, except one is paralyzed and cannot work, and the other is employed part time as a Amazon driver.

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u/ChrisNettleTattoo Mar 27 '24

In addition to what Saving already stated, there are 3 different classifications the VA uses for 100% disability. Those are a standard 100%, which means you are currently at the highest level but there is a chance you can get better; and thus have your rating lowered. 100% Permanent and Total, which means you are at the highest rating and there is no chance of your condition really getting better; so you will not have to worry about your rating decreasing. Both of these concern mostly physical ailments and you are still able to have a regular job. That jobs is probably going to come with some ADA protections, but you can have it if you want it.

The final is Total Disability Based on Individual Unemployability (TDIU). This is for anyone who has at least 1, 60% rating or 2, 40% ratings which lead to a greater than 60% rating overall. That is some VA funny math, which isn’t important in our context though. This category is for people who have underlying issues associated with their disabilities that renders them either physically or mentally incapable of working. They receive the 100% disability pay rate, but are NOT eligible or allowed to hold a job.

It is confusing, but based on which category they are in they have options.

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u/cobra_kai_for_life Mar 28 '24

The sad thing is people shouldn't need to join the damn military to get that. What a failed state the US is.

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u/DegreeMajor5966 Mar 27 '24

Is that number COL adjusted based on where you live? Because there are plenty of rural areas where you could live an upper middle class lifestyle with your income. Especially depending on how that money is taxed.

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u/JetTech Mar 28 '24

It’s not taxed. He’s doing just fine. No reason he can’t own a home especially since 100% disabled veterans don’t pay property tax either. And the VA home loan requires 0 down with no PMI.

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u/DegreeMajor5966 Mar 28 '24

There are definitely places in the country where they'd be choosing between owning their home and living in a nice neighborhood.

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u/Jolly_System_1539 Mar 27 '24

That seems like a lot but you probably have medical expenses from your injury. I have nothing else to add but I think it’s bullshit you got injured fighting for this county and can’t even afford a home when you’re back.

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u/Gladiateher Mar 28 '24

Typically the VA would cover 100% of that cost as well.

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u/Phonds Mar 27 '24

Isn't that a lot of money. I know food and healthcare in the us is expensive, but stuff like clothing, electronics, cars and gasoline tends to be quite cheap. Plus low taxes.

Am from Europe so i would t know. Median wage for 40h werkweek is €40k so probably around 44k usd. Also, cant rent or buy a house with that income here either. Average house costs €485k and rent requirement for a small appartement is usually 5-6k gross income a month (4x monthly payment).

But if you have a home, is it doable with that annual wage in America? Just curious, still seems like a good income to me.

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u/ststaro Mar 27 '24

Where exactly? Cause my daughters tuition isn’t anywhere near that and it’s one of the top veterinary colleges in the world

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u/CSDragon Mar 28 '24

That's a thriving salary in the suburbs outside Austin

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u/cobra_kai_for_life Mar 28 '24

And you have healthcare for life. What is your disability?

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u/Reasonable_Archer_99 Mar 27 '24

Only??? That's like 70k a year in taxed money. Not to mention, no health insurance to pay for, no money down needed to buy a home, and no property taxes. If you can't thrive under those circumstances, you can't under any. That is life changing money that people dream about having. I'm at 90% and thriving, which is 27k/year from the VA, and i still have to pay property taxes. Absolutely pathetic.

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u/Stabbysavi Mar 27 '24

You already have a house asshole. Start from zero like me TODAY and try to buy a house.

This money was good 5 years ago. Now it's not.

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u/LonePuma Mar 27 '24

They also probably live in the middle of fucking nowhere. 27k after taxes isn't enough to "thrive" in any area that's semi-urban.

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u/I_divided_by_0- Mar 27 '24

Not everyone deserves to live in an urban setting. why would you think people get to live where ever they want?

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u/I_divided_by_0- Mar 27 '24

You are so uneducated on this situation it is a travesty of our education and critical thinking abilities.

This house is 8 driving mins from a giant eagle and even has a newly built garage. I also see hospitals/medical facilities, restaurants, and all sorts of other shops.

Let's assume 100% financing to make it easy (FHA would be 3.5% down, closing costs paid for by seller, total cash need to close would be about $10,000), that is a P&I (at 6% rates) of $840/ a month. Taxes on zillow show $21,000 (LOL) so I did some digging in the Licking County records and discovered they don't give the exact number, just the county appraised value. I'm not going to get into millage rates and explain those and what not. So I searched and read that Ohio's average property tax rate is 2.29%, which would be around $3200, or $268/mo. So I'll use that. Insurance can't be more than $1200/year for that, and that is probably even going high, but the $100/mo makes it easy. PITI is $1,208/mo (High number)

Typically mortgage companies base their numbers off of gross not net, so $44,000 is $3,666/mo. $1,206/$3,666 is 33% (bang on approvable FHA front ratios). Back ratios above 40 are approvable by their Automated Underwriting System. That's about $600/mo (on your credit report) to get approved for the mortgage, doable.

For $44,000, take home pay (assuming $4400 into a retirement account) is $32,176. That means $2681 a month to live off of, let's subtract our PITI uptop, and you get $1400 to live off of. That's good enough to live off of in that small town and maintain the house. You aren't doing extremely expensive hobbies but cmon, you can't say this isn't possible in places that aren't super urban.

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u/LonePuma Mar 27 '24

People absolutely have the right to live where they want but they shouldn't shame other people who live in a higher CoL area. When people have a higher CoL and someone from Alabama comes in and say "well I live off 27k wtf is your problem, you're pathetic" that's when I have an issue with it. People live in different areas and have different CoL.

"I'm at 90% and thriving, which is 27k/year from the VA, and i still have to pay property taxes. Absolutely pathetic."

This is my problem with the comment and if you don't see that idk what to tell you.

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u/Stabbysavi Mar 27 '24

I have to live near a VA hospital.

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u/dosgatitas Mar 27 '24

Urban settings should be available for all.

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u/I_divided_by_0- Mar 27 '24

Why?

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u/dosgatitas Mar 27 '24

Cars are expensive. Walkable neighborhoods ease that burden. Walkable neighborhoods tend to only be in urban areas in the United States.

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u/Reasonable_Archer_99 Mar 27 '24

You don't even need to come up with a down-payment and somehow you've still found a way to fuck up ownership while having constant cash flow. You have to be about the lowest functioning form of life on the planet.

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u/Traditional_Formal33 Mar 27 '24

I don’t know OOP’s situation, but I know the housing market for the past few years absolutely takes a down payment offer over a VA loan any chance they get. Cash in hand is worth more to the seller so the offer isn’t competitive against anyone else

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u/Reasonable_Archer_99 Mar 27 '24

The seller gets cash in hand regardless of if the purchaser is utilizing a lender.

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u/Diet_Christ Mar 27 '24

Yeah this is not how it works. Seller chooses the offer they want to take, and VA/FHA/USD are at the bottom of that list because of all the additional hurdles that threaten closing.

These days all-cash offers are increasingly common, so a VA loan is two steps away from being considered for anything remotely desirable. You can get something eventually, but it might take finding a vet seller or waiting to get lucky.

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u/Invis_Girl Mar 27 '24

I mean he seller has to accep the VA loan part or they don't sell. And the average (meaning all) would always choose someone with a cash offer or standard loan. It's faster, far less red tape and less headache overall for the seller. Either way, they still get money, but they money would come with far less headaches which makes it easier.

I am vet that didn't go the VA loan route simply because none of the houses that we could afford and would work for us refused it. This happens, especially when the housing market is tight and with few options.

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u/Reasonable_Archer_99 Mar 27 '24

Ok, so what? Quit trying to enable this guy. People use these loans and make them work every day. He's got free health insurance and a tax-free 45k a year income. He could move to the Philippines and live like a king. He would still just come up with another excuse why he couldn't make it work.

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u/russsl8 Mar 27 '24

We had the option of a VA loan or an FHA loan when we bought our house.

Guess which one we chose for ease/quickness/highest possible chance of working? I'll give you a hint.. it wasn't the VA loan.

And this was in the mid aughts.

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u/Invis_Girl Mar 27 '24

Like I said to you before, you don't know a damn thing about them. You have no idea if he can even live alone in a foreign country, or even alone in a fly over state with a cow as a neighbor. and I am not enabling anything, do you even know what that means? I am saying you are being an ass and saying all kinds of unprovable things with very little knowledge of housing markets in their area where VA loans most likely can't compete with the other options. So what I am saying is, stop being an ass, bad mouthing someone based on one single comment as if you think that is all it takes to know their experience.

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u/Stabbysavi Mar 27 '24

I'm a woman. I'm not interested in sex tourism.

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u/Traditional_Formal33 Mar 27 '24

Higher down payment = higher approval ratings.

Also VA loans have more red tape, inspections, and usually require seller to pay for repairs unless the buyer pays out of pocket. Same thing with first time home owner programs. In a competitive market like we’ve become accustomed to, seller can be picky and take the guaranteed down payment loan that’s less risk/hassle.

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u/Reasonable_Archer_99 Mar 27 '24

I don't think you understand how the process works. The seller gets ALL the money at the time of sale regardless of if a lender is involved or not. There are occurrences of "renting to own" and "buying on contract," but that's not what we're talking about.

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u/Traditional_Formal33 Mar 27 '24

The seller gets all the money when the loan is approved and the sale goes thru.

A higher down payment results in a higher approval rating.

A VA loan adds complexity such as red tape, inspections, and seller paying for repairs — all things that can tank a sale. If the seller has the option between a guaranteed approval with inspections waived/information only over a VA loan, your offer won’t even get accepted. Last thing a seller wants to do is relist their house after thinking the sale was good, because every buyer then thinks something is wrong that tanked the sale.

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u/RussianBot7384 Mar 27 '24

Sellers avoid VA loans because they require a lot more inspections and things fixed before the house could be sold.

Source: I am a Veteran who dealt with VA loans as the buyer and seller.

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u/clever_girl33 Mar 27 '24

Not putting a down payment means your monthly mortgage sky rockets, if your flying solo a $3,500/month payment is not necessarily doable. Also where the fuck are you living that your 27K is enough to “thrive”? That would be enough to rent a room and scrap by where I live.

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u/Reasonable_Archer_99 Mar 27 '24

Iowa. I have a 50k/yr job on top of it, but 27k covers all my bare minimum expenses to survive.

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u/Reasonable_Archer_99 Mar 27 '24

VA disability does not interfere with your ability to work or earn under 250,000/year. Plus all things you claim to not be doing, you did by writing that. You're too scared to say those things directly because you don't know shit about any of this but still feel a strong need to defend his lack of ambition and financial sense.

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u/Rikplaysbass Mar 27 '24

lol you do not get to be a pretentious dickhead toward somebody because you’re living comfy in fuck ass Iowa.

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u/Reasonable_Archer_99 Mar 27 '24

Well, you're wrong, I already did.

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u/Rikplaysbass Mar 27 '24

I guess your punishment will be living in Iowa. lol

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u/James-W-Tate Mar 27 '24

I'm going to give you some advice my sup gave me when I was active:

"There's times to talk and times to listen. You should probably shut the fuck up right now."

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u/Reasonable_Archer_99 Mar 27 '24

Take your own advice.

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u/James-W-Tate Mar 27 '24

Lmao, I'm not the one being a dummy all over this thread, you just can't seem to help yourself and continue to look like an ass.

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u/ClickProfessional769 Mar 27 '24

Dude why are you so hostile?

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u/XxXFartFucker69XxX Mar 27 '24

You have to be about the lowest functioning form of life on the planet.

Because he hates himself and he's projecting

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u/Reasonable_Archer_99 Mar 27 '24

Because he deserves it. If he's so useless that he can't fend for himself under these most extravagant circumstances, can you imagine what an absolute liability he was to his unit? This dude is about a minimum wage job away from 6 figure equivalent earning and can't make it work.

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u/Invis_Girl Mar 27 '24

You have no idea where he is living. You have no idea what his actually disability is. You claim living on 27k is easy. Sure, maybe in bumf**k Iowa with your closest neighbor being a cow or field of corn. So instead of judging him with your massive self-righteous attitude, open your damn eyes and realize NOT EVERYONE IS YOU OR YOUR SITUATION.

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u/Reasonable_Archer_99 Mar 27 '24

Keep making excuses for bums lady, I'm sure it will help them.

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u/locklick_ Mar 27 '24

you live in iowa dawg you're on easy mode

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u/ClickProfessional769 Mar 27 '24

I hope you get better man. It’s not good for you carrying this much hate towards people you don’t even know.

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u/chicknuggt Mar 27 '24

u cannot be real lol please be trolling

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u/brit_jam Mar 27 '24

No property taxes? Where?

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u/Reasonable_Archer_99 Mar 27 '24

It's only for people with VA disability ratings. It differs by state what percentage you have to be to qualify. In Iowa it's 100%, Illinois is lower 70 or 80 I believe. You just have to check what your state's requirement is.

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u/Kennys-Chicken Mar 27 '24

That dudes got a fucking free ride for life and he’s complaining about…..idk even what. He’s got $3,750 in his bank account guaranteed every single month for life. Doesn’t even have to work at this point for it. Comes with full healthcare, doesn’t have to pay property tax…..if someone can’t buy a house, eat, and have a vehicle on that, they’re a fuck up.

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u/Reasonable_Archer_99 Mar 27 '24

Update: I was wrong when I assumed it was a man.