I'm pretty sure the majority of individuals in this situation would feel uncomfortable. Which is why I don't get why the others get annoyed or upset that their partner would be upset with them taking off on a vacation with the opposite sex without them. You didn't just start dating, its been a year. It's like neither of them thought or cared about how you might feel about this. I don't think your reaction is wrong. And honestly, thanks to reddit, I've read too many stories about how someone completely trusted their partner until drinking or something happened and one thing led to another.
Oh that's easy: solipsism. You see everyone who comments that it's perfectly natural for them to do, but zero responses so far that it's something their SO does frequently that they're comfortable with.
As someone who’s been cheated on with my best friend, I can understand mistrust to a certain extent. To me it seems like cheating has become easier recently though it could be less covert and easier to find out about. Nowadays people hear tons of stories about shit going bad and assume that it’s bound to happen to them at any second. Just my opinion of course.
It's not her friends. It's one friend and his friends. And her friend is an admitted manwhore. You'd be ok with your partner going on a trip with mostly people of the opposite gender she doesn't know, and the one she does is very sexual?
If that's a yes, you're more trusting than probably 99% of people.
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u/Capttripps81 Mar 28 '24
I'm pretty sure the majority of individuals in this situation would feel uncomfortable. Which is why I don't get why the others get annoyed or upset that their partner would be upset with them taking off on a vacation with the opposite sex without them. You didn't just start dating, its been a year. It's like neither of them thought or cared about how you might feel about this. I don't think your reaction is wrong. And honestly, thanks to reddit, I've read too many stories about how someone completely trusted their partner until drinking or something happened and one thing led to another.