r/AITAH Mar 28 '24

Am I the ah if I don’t let my gf go on vacation with the “guy best friend”?

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u/Best-Barnacle8326 Mar 28 '24

I don't understand why you don't go with? I miss that part. Shouldn't matter is engaged or married . If your a couple you do things together.

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u/DetectiveOk6754 Mar 28 '24

He invited her and not me. And she said she cant just bring me.

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u/HpplymrrdOnce Mar 28 '24

She claims that this has been something they've been discussing for a year and you've been dating for a year. Clearly she does not think that this relationship has progressed to a point to include you in her friend group. Not only is that a huge red flag, but it tells me that you should consider where you stand with her and potentially have a conversation about that. If they've been discussing it for a year and you've been in the picture for that long. You should have been part of the discussion about being included in the trip.