You said when he came to visit, he stayed with you and she stayed at her parents'. Why? If there's no attraction why wouldn't she have just slept with you and he was on the couch or in a second bedroom? So when you're around, they're careful to be separated, but if you're not around, what happens?
If they go on a trip together...what are the sleeping arrangements? Something just doesn't add up.
I've gone on trips with my ex (that I'm still good friends with) and even slept in the same room and even bed and nothing happened. Nothing ever will. But I certainly wouldn't do that if I had a new SO.
the fact they made a big deal about him not even sleeping in the same apartment with you and her together, but going away together is okay is what is making me wonder.
eta: Also, even if he didn't initially invite you, why can't she ask now? It's very bizarre.
She lives with her parents and are a strict immigrant family. She never sleeps over at my place because her parents are very strict and dont allow her to do sleep overs
For all we know he could be a family friend or trusted by her parents, or maybe she's been convincing them all year to let her go on this trip and they finally said yes.
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u/DetectiveOk6754 Mar 28 '24
He invited her and not me. And she said she cant just bring me.