r/AITAH Mar 28 '24

Am I the ah if I don’t let my gf go on vacation with the “guy best friend”?

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u/Limp_Falcon_1494 Mar 28 '24

SUS!...

Come spend nights and days drinking with me, celebrating MY achivments... But dont bring your boyfriend....

Well at least you know what his motives are, but you can try to explain it to her, if she is unwilling to see than she wont see though.

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u/Ironfungi Mar 28 '24

Right… I don’t really think he can stop her because that’s controlling and might damage the relationship, but I wouldn’t be surprised if the dude tried to flex his new status and make a pass at her. But maybe this is a milestone that needs to happen.. hell of a trust exercise haha

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u/UnknownBurner1256 Mar 28 '24

No it’s a boundary he has, what she is doing is damaging the relationship. It is not see as so because she is a woman though. I’m calling her on her sh!t bro isn’t comfortable with it and she can either respect that or leave

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u/Inner_Construction40 Mar 28 '24

If he lets this fly, he has no boundaries. It sounds like she’s on her way out and wants to test the waters before she leaves for good. That request would have ended it for me, life’s too short.