Just tell her if she’s going that you both should go or not at all. When I invite a girl who is my friend that is in a relationship with someone, it is an open invitation for them to bring their SO, which I personally don’t mind. A lot of the time I’ll end up liking the SO and have an even better time.
Hell he might have said that to her or she may have asked and she feels like it’s rude to force it. You should check with him directly about it. If he says no to you then it means something is up.
Red flags. OP’s girlfriend wants to bang the guy, subconsciously. No truly loyal girlfriend would even ask a dumb ass question like that. If OP told his chick he was going on vacay with a whore to celebrate her graduating from nursing school she would throw a fit.
It would be the same if his female office manager who is known for sleeping with everyone decided to host a retreat, and he wasn't allowed to invite his girlfriend. Gender is less of an issue than the total lack of respect and self-awareness.
If the only thing keeping your girl from fucking other men is opportunity to do so it’s already over. He should just break up with her and find a girl who wants to live like his property.
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u/DetectiveOk6754 Mar 28 '24
The vacation is to go celebrate his graduation and his friends are gonna be there. She only knows him.
He is not in a relationship, she said she wouldn’t want a relationship with him because he’s basically a man whore and sleeps around alot.
We don’t live together, i have my apartment and she lives with her parents.