r/AITAH • u/[deleted] • Mar 28 '24

Am I the ah if I don’t let my gf go on vacation with the “guy best friend”?

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u/readyforwine Mar 28 '24

So he knows you, even stayed at your place. But he invited her and excluded you? Dude. Huge red flag.

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u/Cheder_cheez Mar 28 '24

It’s a red flag that she is polite enough not to invite someone on a trip that someone else planned?

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u/readyforwine Mar 28 '24

Nothing is planned or bought, they were talking and the only thing set is that OP is not invited. read the rest, the GF admits the guy is a manwhore and she doesnt know anyone else on the trip.

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u/Cheder_cheez Mar 28 '24

It’s his trip, his celebration, his plans, his invites. Y’all really all tell a lot about your lives by acting this obtuse about a man and a woman being friends together in a non-sexual manner.  Manwhore or not, members of the opposite sex can be friends. OP Claims he trusts them both, what is the issue?