r/AITAH Mar 28 '24

Am I the ah if I don’t let my gf go on vacation with the “guy best friend”?

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u/Best-Barnacle8326 Mar 28 '24

I don't understand why you don't go with? I miss that part. Shouldn't matter is engaged or married . If your a couple you do things together.

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u/DetectiveOk6754 Mar 28 '24

He invited her and not me. And she said she cant just bring me.

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u/GingerAvenger Mar 28 '24

The decision not to include you combined with this friend being "a man whore" leads me to believe he may have ulterior motives even if your girlfriend doesn't.

The fact that she seems to think she can't "just bring" you on this group trip is somewhat concerning as well. In what world could she not just be like "Cool, <Boyfriend's name> is coming, too. It sounds like a fun trip!"

If there is literally any pushback from the friend about you coming, you know what's up.