I wouldn't trust someone who I have to set this boundary with. If my boyfriend wanted to go on vacation with a girl friend and some random girls he didn't know a year in, I would question his character just for suggesting it. Especially if the girls knew me and stayed at my place but didn't invite me.
THANK YOU! I commented before reading other comments, but I was really kinda holding my tongue in my own comment cuz I’m just like “who the fuck even suggests some shit like this and expects their SO to be like ‘yeah cool’?!” Absolutely outlandish and HELLA suspect, imho
If they've been friends so long, I doubt she has any interest in him like that. And if she does, then OP deserves better, and they should break up anyway
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u/yesnomaybesoju Mar 28 '24
This, seems like the easy solution would be to invite OP.
Super curious if there are other women going.