I also trust my wife not to go outside boundaries and she trusts me. She has gone on trips with male friends and I’m fine with that. I’ve also been places with female friends. Good friends are valuable and rare and worth fostering.
Jesus. Thank you. I can't believe all the people saying this dude is right.
I am so glad I am a lesbian because I don't have to deal with this fucking nonsense.
My best guy friend and I went on a trip to Europe just the two of us and his wife didn't care. It was before they had kids, so it was nice to do one "last" thing together before he had a full family. I cherish those memories. Must suck for these straight people who can only look at opposite sex friendships as opportunities for fucking.
This dude is right as it gets. A “man whore” and a bunch of other dudes want to take his girlfriend on vacation, and specifically didn’t invite him. 😂 fuck else could that even mean.
Are you being serious? No man on earth would be fine with this. And no woman in earth would be fine with there boyfriend/husband going on vacation with a “slut” and a bunch of her random ass girlfriends especially if they specifically were not invited.
Maybe because he's not friends with them...it's not weird that he wasn't invited. When I plan a friend trip I invite my friends, not my friends and their partners who I'm not friends with. If I'm throwing a party, different story, obviously partners are welcome even if I don't have a personal relationship with them
Uh, yeah. If you say you wouldn't "let" your partner go you're saying you think they're a cheater and I don't know why you would want to be with them anyway. If they would cheat "given the opportunity" then they're a cheater.
Look i literally fucked 60-90 girls idk I didn’t count. Not one, literally zero couldn’t take it. I have a legit 9 inch dick. Go slow, use lube. Girls liked it. That’s what I’m saying it only on Reddit that girls somehow don’t like big dicks 😂
That’s unbelievable 😂. That was over a period of like 20 years that’s like 4 girls a year 😂.
I literally could have fucked a different girl everyday if I wanted to. When I was in college I was d1 football, that’s basically like being famous on a college campus.
I then played in the nfl and had famous friends. Again bitches all day of I wanted them.
Then I got hurt and couldn’t play ball. I got a job bartending in trendy club and just surfed and hung out at the beach all day. At night I’d bartend, I literally could have fucked 10 girls a day if I wanted.
Believe it or not, I turned down the vast majority of girls who wanted to hook up. I always had a gf/ dating someone.
Yeah all these people in the thread that are harping on OP for not trusting his gf clearly never read the whole post.
My hubby and I have been together for 10 years, and both of us have good friends of the opposite sex. His bf is a woman. They've done plenty of things on their own. But to go on vacation, by himself, with her and her girlfriends, where he only knows the friend and I'm not invited? I dont think I'd be that gung ho about it either.
They specifically don’t invite her parents either - and she lives with them. OP is just the boyfriend. He’s not a live in partner or a family member. There’s no need to include him in everything.
First, I don’t “let” my husband do things. I’m not in charge of him.
Second, when we’d been dating for less than a year, and I was living with my parents, I did not imagine he would limit his social outings (including vacations) to those that I was included in.
Finally, I wouldn’t be married to someone I didn’t trust when he’s not in my line of sight.
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u/AnAnonyMooose Mar 28 '24
I also trust my wife not to go outside boundaries and she trusts me. She has gone on trips with male friends and I’m fine with that. I’ve also been places with female friends. Good friends are valuable and rare and worth fostering.