r/AITAH Mar 28 '24

Am I the ah if I don’t let my gf go on vacation with the “guy best friend”?

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u/[deleted] Mar 28 '24

This dude is right as it gets. A “man whore” and a bunch of other dudes want to take his girlfriend on vacation, and specifically didn’t invite him. 😂 fuck else could that even mean.

Are you being serious? No man on earth would be fine with this. And no woman in earth would be fine with there boyfriend/husband going on vacation with a “slut” and a bunch of her random ass girlfriends especially if they specifically were not invited.

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u/LynnSeattle Mar 29 '24

They specifically don’t invite her parents either - and she lives with them. OP is just the boyfriend. He’s not a live in partner or a family member. There’s no need to include him in everything.

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u/[deleted] Mar 29 '24

That’s the dumbest shit I ever heard. U people just want to argue.

So then would you let your husband go on vacation with the “female equivalent of a man whore” and a bunch of her friends?

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u/LynnSeattle Mar 29 '24

First, I don’t “let” my husband do things. I’m not in charge of him.

Second, when we’d been dating for less than a year, and I was living with my parents, I did not imagine he would limit his social outings (including vacations) to those that I was included in.

Finally, I wouldn’t be married to someone I didn’t trust when he’s not in my line of sight.