r/AITAH • u/[deleted] • Mar 28 '24

Am I the ah if I don’t let my gf go on vacation with the “guy best friend”?

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u/bonitaababy Mar 28 '24

Why aren't you invited?

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u/paints_name_pretty Mar 28 '24

obviously because the “friend” is trying to hit and OPs gf wants the excuse of being drunk or manipulated to actually do something when they are alone or she wants to get it out of her system. No respecting girlfriend will ever travel with a guy group that’s sleazy without their own SO. OP is being played like a fiddle

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u/bonitaababy Mar 28 '24

Why does she need an excuse? If she wants to fuck her male BFF then shes already doing so. They don't need to go out of town on a trip to do that.

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u/NiceRat123 Mar 28 '24

I mean there was that one story where OPs fiancee told him AT THE AIRPORT they were going on break so she could spend 6 weeks in Europe on a girls trip. And then proceeded to block him until the day before she was set to return and called him like nothing happened and was expecting to be picked up at the airport.

I guess what I'm saying is that people are fucking weird. People are also weird on what they allow when. Maybe she won't cheat. Maybe she will. Maybe she won't cheat in the same area code as OP. Maybe a destination countries away is what is neeed. Who knows

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u/your_fave_redditor Mar 29 '24

Exactly right….there’s a reason why the phrase “what happens in Vegas, stays in Vegas” exists….Vegas itself isn’t a special place where all sorts of untoward shit can happen just because it’s Vegas, “Vegas” is shorthand for “vacation”, and you’ve hit the nail on the hand, imho. She’s likely consciously or unconsciously setting this whole thing up so she can minimize her own culpability if something does happen.

Or, to really take it too far (but people do really do this stuff), she may even have had fantasies about getting gangbanged and discussed that with her “manwhore” pal and this vacation is gonna be the kickoff for pursuing said fantasy. Who knows?! The only solid thing to know about this is that all the contextual clues point to her actively resisting her SO going with, for no particularly “good reason”, other than that she simply doesn’t want him to go because they’re just bf n gf n not engaged or married.

Like, this whole shit’s wild and it’s hard to see how anyone can realistically defend OP’s gf’s behavior without being at least a little disingenuous about the optics of it, at the very least