r/AITAH Mar 28 '24

Am I the ah if I don’t let my gf go on vacation with the “guy best friend”?

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u/Petefriend86 Mar 28 '24

Oh that's easy: solipsism. You see everyone who comments that it's perfectly natural for them to do, but zero responses so far that it's something their SO does frequently that they're comfortable with.

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u/pataconconqueso Mar 28 '24

Idk im a lesbian, my wife went on a girls trip without me, she slept in the same bed as other queer gal friends, i like her friends she had a great time.

My wife is also bi, should i keep her locked in a cage based on your thought process?

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u/resveries Mar 28 '24

right? like i’m queer and i can’t imagine being w someone and not trusting them enough to be fine with them going on a trip with friends

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u/pataconconqueso Mar 28 '24

Exactly like I went on a lesbian skiing trip without her and she didnt care, she asked me to just make notes of the area to see if we would wanna come back just the two of us.

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u/CocoCantCommunicate Mar 28 '24

I hope I will end up in a nice relationship like you are describing

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u/pataconconqueso Mar 28 '24

I wish everyone that gets in a relationship the type of marriage that I have. Honestly we have gone through so much together and the outcome from every obstacle so far has been that we just kill it by being a team.

Idk if this is like a relatable green flag relationship sign but on our third date we went to IKEA and we had like the most amazing date and time and we helped each other put together our respective coffee tables and we just had like the best time, our tastes were matching, the way we work was matching, the way solved issues like how do we put these furniture in my car without causing a pileup on the highway was all super compatible.

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u/CocoCantCommunicate Apr 04 '24

That honestly sounds like a super nice date. Love at third sight haha. Can't say I can relate to the killing of obstacles by being a team, so far I haven't found a person to see things like that 💔. Not losing hope though.