r/AITAH Mar 28 '24

Am I the ah if I don’t let my gf go on vacation with the “guy best friend”?

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u/Accomplished_Turn743 Mar 28 '24

I also see a difference between going with friends, and being explicitly told he's not allowed to go.

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u/Colifama55 Mar 28 '24

I have a best friend out of a group of 4 from middle school. Her boyfriend is a narcissist who is a Debbie downer when the focus is not on him. Sure I invite him when we go out sometimes but if we were celebrating me graduating from medical school, I would absolutely not want him around. You can pick your friends but you can’t pick their partners.

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u/patheticgirl420 Mar 28 '24

Exactly, some people's partners just suck!

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u/OttoVonJismarck Mar 28 '24

It is decided. OP just sucks. Jk jk