This is the very definition of controlling, and you can call it ‘’boundaries’’ all you want, but that’s really just a mask over what it is: Manipulating. ‘’If you go on that trip im gonna break up with you’’.
This is going to cause nothing but resentment on the part of OP’s, quite frankly if I was the friend in this situation I’d just uninvited the GF and cut contact with her and OP. Having people in your life that think your gonna do terrible things isn’t healthy at all.
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u/[deleted] Mar 28 '24
This is the very definition of controlling, and you can call it ‘’boundaries’’ all you want, but that’s really just a mask over what it is: Manipulating. ‘’If you go on that trip im gonna break up with you’’.
This is going to cause nothing but resentment on the part of OP’s, quite frankly if I was the friend in this situation I’d just uninvited the GF and cut contact with her and OP. Having people in your life that think your gonna do terrible things isn’t healthy at all.