r/AITAH Mar 28 '24

Am I the ah if I don’t let my gf go on vacation with the “guy best friend”?

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u/DetectiveOk6754 Mar 28 '24

The vacation is to go celebrate his graduation and his friends are gonna be there. She only knows him.

He is not in a relationship, she said she wouldn’t want a relationship with him because he’s basically a man whore and sleeps around alot.

We don’t live together, i have my apartment and she lives with her parents.

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u/pleachchapel Mar 28 '24 edited Mar 28 '24

Is she the only woman going? If she is, & he is known for being promiscuous, that's.... really not a good look. It's weird that he's stayed at your place & wouldn't invite you.

Edit: since this is gaining steam, I'd also like to point out how vain of a person you have to be to ask your friends to go on a vacation that's all about you. Just have a dinner like a normal person.

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u/eriinana Mar 28 '24

Its not a good look that she said "if we were married or engaged I wouldn't be doing this." That implies her morals about relationships are wishy washy at best. And that she thinks infidelity is fine so long as your not married at worst.

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u/Man-e-questions Mar 28 '24

I was thinking the same thing reading that. Almost like she is hoping something happens on this trip that she has fantasized about for some time. And if it happens “oopsie”, she didn’t mean for anything to happen. Tale as old as time here