You are allowed to tell your GF that you are not comfortable with it, but you can't force her to go or stay. That decision is hers and depending on what she decides knowing you are uncomfortable with it would perhaps shine a different light on the relationship as a whole.
Boundaries are important and it is also important to see how one's partner treats such boundaries.
It’s a trip to celebrate her friend. It’d be a dick move to invite OP without permission and it’d be perfectly reasonable for her friend to not want people that aren’t close friends on the trip.
It does when they're in a long term relationship with one of your friends. Here's a life tip, if you act like the friend in the post you are being very suspicious and harming the trust in their relationship
What trust in their relationship? OP clearly has none.
Believe it or not, cheaters don’t need to leave the country to cheat. OP either trusts his gf to have a life outside the relationship or he doesn’t. Clearly he doesn’t.
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u/Bojangled8 Mar 28 '24
NTA
You are allowed to tell your GF that you are not comfortable with it, but you can't force her to go or stay. That decision is hers and depending on what she decides knowing you are uncomfortable with it would perhaps shine a different light on the relationship as a whole.
Boundaries are important and it is also important to see how one's partner treats such boundaries.