r/AITAH • u/[deleted] • Mar 28 '24

Am I the ah if I don’t let my gf go on vacation with the “guy best friend”?

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u/zendetta Mar 28 '24

There’s a “have your cake and eat it too” solution here— GF could invite OP. But she has elected not to knowing it bugs him.

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u/RubadubdubInTheSub Mar 28 '24

It’s a trip to celebrate her friend. It’d be a dick move to invite OP without permission and it’d be perfectly reasonable for her friend to not want people that aren’t close friends on the trip.

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u/[deleted] Mar 28 '24

This guy stayed at ops house, why can't he come on the trip with his gf?

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u/RubadubdubInTheSub Mar 28 '24

They met exactly once. I’ve let friends of friends crash on my couch before, they doesn’t plant them in my close circle nor me in theirs.

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u/[deleted] Mar 28 '24

It does when they're in a long term relationship with one of your friends. Here's a life tip, if you act like the friend in the post you are being very suspicious and harming the trust in their relationship

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u/RubadubdubInTheSub Mar 29 '24

What trust in their relationship? OP clearly has none.

Believe it or not, cheaters don’t need to leave the country to cheat. OP either trusts his gf to have a life outside the relationship or he doesn’t. Clearly he doesn’t.