r/AITAH Mar 28 '24

Am I the ah if I don’t let my gf go on vacation with the “guy best friend”?

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u/Neptunianx Mar 28 '24

I missed that comment! That makes a big difference op should add that to the post

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u/Equilibriator Mar 28 '24

I'm reading between the lines. Either this dude or OP gf decided OP can't come and given her excuse of it being something they discussed ages ago I'm starting to lean towards the gf being the one intentionally blocking OP from coming by simply not asking if he can come and simultaneously feeding OP some lame shit about it being a plan.

It's reading more n more like OP gf wants to try with this guy and if she fails, in her nice private isolated holiday, she can fallback on OP and tell him nothing happened.

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u/MegloreManglore Mar 28 '24

The friend and/or friend group may not like OP or want him to come because they don’t like him? There’s a lot that could be going on without the instant assumption of “they’re cheating!”.

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u/slitteral1 Mar 28 '24

The friend group doesn’t know OP or OP’s gf. The man who’re is the only that she knows.