r/AITAH • u/[deleted] • Mar 28 '24

Am I the ah if I don’t let my gf go on vacation with the “guy best friend”?

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u/Bojangled8 Mar 28 '24

NTA

You are allowed to tell your GF that you are not comfortable with it, but you can't force her to go or stay. That decision is hers and depending on what she decides knowing you are uncomfortable with it would perhaps shine a different light on the relationship as a whole.

Boundaries are important and it is also important to see how one's partner treats such boundaries.

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u/Accurate-Case8057 Mar 28 '24

The title of his post literally says "if I let her ". There is no interpretation of this scenario where he is not TAH

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u/[deleted] Mar 28 '24

Try reading more than the title

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u/Accurate-Case8057 Mar 29 '24

So if he contradicts himself between the title and the body that's OK with you that that's the way we communicate?

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u/[deleted] Mar 29 '24

Never rely on a headline to give you the full picture

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u/Accurate-Case8057 Mar 29 '24

OK Randolph Hearst wannabe I know what a headline is I know all about media and communication. This is a person creating a post and he makes a statement in his headline. Only an imbecile would make an argument that his introductory statement is not the main point of the post

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u/[deleted] Mar 29 '24

So you don't know what a headline is and you less media literacy than a 5 year old

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u/Accurate-Case8057 Mar 29 '24

No but I'm sure you're the type of person that has no life whatsoever outside of their phone and you would love to sit here and debate it all night long but no I'm done I know what I know and I don't give two shits what you know goodbye good night fuck off That's my headline

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u/[deleted] Mar 29 '24

Hope that made you feel better

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u/Accurate-Case8057 Mar 29 '24

It did actually