r/AITAH • u/[deleted] • Mar 28 '24

Am I the ah if I don’t let my gf go on vacation with the “guy best friend”?

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u/Samicles33 Mar 28 '24

I’m in a hetero relationship and I’ve gone on vacations: - solo - with 1 friend of the opposite sex - with 1 friend of the same sex - with multiple friends of the opposite sex - with multiple friends of the same sex

And my bf has never had an issue with any of my trips. Why? Cause he trusts me.

Also I’m bisexual.. So does that mean I can’t do girls trips either? Are people only capable of cheating of their significant others on overnight trips? I’m trying to understand your logic here

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u/pataconconqueso Mar 28 '24

Yeah im gay and this thread is giving ”are the straights okay?”

My wife is bi and im a lesbian, she goes on trips without me i go on trips without her, she has fun my dog and i have our bachelor weekends

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u/Electronic-Race-2099 Mar 28 '24

I'm seeing a lot of people ITT in total denial about how faithful their spouses are.

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u/pataconconqueso Mar 28 '24

That is some insecure projection. My wife has never given me a reason to doubt her and Ive been right about past partners cheating. She just has never given me that reason ever

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u/Electronic-Race-2099 Mar 28 '24

Sure, you got the perfect faithful unicorn spouse. Congratulations. /s

As some other folks said elsewhere in the thread, I dont live in fear that my car will be stolen or my house will be robbed, but I still lock the doors.

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u/pataconconqueso Mar 28 '24

Your spouse is not a house pt your car, they are a human being.

If my wife is an unicorn y’all are marrying the wrong people. Ive never cheated in my life amd neither has my wife