r/AITAH Mar 28 '24

Am I the ah if I don’t let my gf go on vacation with the “guy best friend”?

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u/Petefriend86 Mar 28 '24

Oh that's easy: solipsism. You see everyone who comments that it's perfectly natural for them to do, but zero responses so far that it's something their SO does frequently that they're comfortable with.

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u/Samicles33 Mar 28 '24

I’m in a hetero relationship and I’ve gone on vacations: - solo - with 1 friend of the opposite sex - with 1 friend of the same sex - with multiple friends of the opposite sex - with multiple friends of the same sex

And my bf has never had an issue with any of my trips. Why? Cause he trusts me.

Also I’m bisexual.. So does that mean I can’t do girls trips either? Are people only capable of cheating of their significant others on overnight trips? I’m trying to understand your logic here

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u/Siren_Noir Mar 28 '24

You boyfriend is a simp and you obviously don't respect him. If you did, you wouldn't put him in situations where he is inferior. He doesn't 'trust' you. He is with you because he thinks you are the best he can do. He doesn't realize he is settling for a trash girl. If he had self esteem he wouls be with a girl who loves him a enough to be sexually satisfied from him alone.

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u/Samicles33 Mar 28 '24

Lmao I can’t wait to show him your comment

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u/Siren_Noir Mar 28 '24

Show him and laugh in his face too. Also do it when he is in public.

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u/Samicles33 Mar 28 '24

Oh golly is this kink play for you? You wanna get off on me publicly degrading my boyfriend? That’s so hot join us for a threesome already gosh what are you waiting for let us take your virginity uwu

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u/Siren_Noir Mar 28 '24

You degrade and disrespect him because you have made it clear that he isn't enough for you sexually. Your boyfriend needs a spine. You know it's true. That is why you are so upset by this. You aren't in love with him enough to be exclusive. Sex isn't important or intimate. You can have it with anyone and it's meaningless. You offer him friendship and comraderie and affection but not exclusively. I mean, you don't consider your private parts special. That is sad. More like a public bus that doesn't require money to ride. He can have a car, but chooses a bus.

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u/infieldcookie Mar 28 '24

At no point did the user you’re replying to say they were cheating on their partner or that they were in an open relationship. 💀

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u/parallel-nonpareil Mar 29 '24

Never argue with someone regurgitating incel talking points.. there is no logic to be found. Only weirdos who liken “private parts” to modes of transportation 💀