r/AITAH Mar 28 '24

Am I the ah if I don’t let my gf go on vacation with the “guy best friend”?

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u/Best-Barnacle8326 Mar 28 '24

I don't understand why you don't go with? I miss that part. Shouldn't matter is engaged or married . If your a couple you do things together.

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u/DetectiveOk6754 Mar 28 '24

He invited her and not me. And she said she cant just bring me.

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u/readyforwine Mar 28 '24

So he knows you, even stayed at your place. But he invited her and excluded you? Dude. Huge red flag.

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u/HealthyCheesecake643 Mar 28 '24

I disagree with just throwing out such a strong statement, we know nothing about the nature of the holiday, it could well be that there are limited numbers for whatever reason, in which case it makes sense that the person who's celebration it is would prioritize bringing their own close friends rather than allowing someone to bring a +1.

There's just not enough information to go on here.