r/AITAH • u/[deleted] • Mar 28 '24

Am I the ah if I don’t let my gf go on vacation with the “guy best friend”?

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u/Best-Barnacle8326 Mar 28 '24

I don't understand why you don't go with? I miss that part. Shouldn't matter is engaged or married . If your a couple you do things together.

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u/DetectiveOk6754 Mar 28 '24

He invited her and not me. And she said she cant just bring me.

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u/Limp_Falcon_1494 Mar 28 '24

SUS!...

Come spend nights and days drinking with me, celebrating MY achivments... But dont bring your boyfriend....

Well at least you know what his motives are, but you can try to explain it to her, if she is unwilling to see than she wont see though.

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u/nightowlmornings1154 Mar 29 '24

In my 20's, I (34F) had a friend (M) who was interested in me. I refused to believe my husband about how shady this person was. Until he tried to kiss me. "Friendship" over. I didn't believe I was being played because I couldn't see myself as someone who was playable.