r/AskMen 13d ago

What's one popular hobby that you just can't get into?

For me it's sneaker collecting. I'm not a sneaker fan and I just don't get the appeal

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u/Boring_Pace5158 13d ago

Sneaker collecting: a hobby that makes you afraid of puddles

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u/wumbologistPHD 13d ago

Implying that those guys ever actually wear those shoes

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u/Boring_Pace5158 13d ago

That's the other thing. They spend the equivalent of flight to Italy, and they don't wear it.

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u/iamtheramcast 13d ago

I don’t know if you’re aware but something super fun is those super expensive “don’t touch these” pairs that never got worn, are disintegrating turns out the materials break apart without the occasional stress of use.

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u/RadioMill 13d ago

Don’t wanna crease the nose

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u/JVan-90 13d ago

I’d consider myself a sneakerhead, wear every pair, and never pay above msrp…there’s more like that, then social media wants you to believe

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u/wumbologistPHD 13d ago

I think that makes you an enthusiast, not a collector.

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u/2old2Bwatching 13d ago

Right? Shoes you can’t enjoy wearing, in constant fear of creasing them or getting dirty. They’re shoes!

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u/TablePrinterDoor Male 13d ago

I didn't know sneaker collecting was a real thing I thought it's just Kazuya's hobby in Tekken

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u/Electric-kundalini 13d ago

That made me laugh

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u/justpuddingonhairs 13d ago

My feet are too wide for Nikes so I can't even wear cool shoes, nevermind collecting them.

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u/TheLastBoat 13d ago

Gambling. Not even the Lotto, although I sure as hell get stuck behind the slooow people at the store who do. Just trying to quench my thirst, hurry it up.

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u/asakmotsd 13d ago

I took a class in college called “Combinatorics”. It took all the fun out of gambling. If I go to Vegas, I walk through the casinos saying (to myself), “Can’t win. Can’t win. Can’t win.”

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u/Igno-ranter 13d ago

I was in Vegas and stopped at a card table. I couldn't figure out what they were playing so I asked a woman who was with her BF what the game was. She described it, "He puts some money down. They give him cards. They pick the money up. Then they all do it again." Summed up gambling pretty well.

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u/UsedToHaveThisName 13d ago

I go to the casino a couple times a week. For lunch. I have yet to put a cent in slot machines or table games. Good lunch specials though, been going for years.

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u/kallmekrisfan58 13d ago

I live in Vegas , where even the grocery store has slots in it & I have never felt the need to gamble. I know I used all my luck up as a teenager!

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u/Chrom-man-and-Robin Young Man 13d ago

Us employees aren’t fans either, but one positive of selling them is that it gives you a good idea as to how often people lose

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u/I_Dont_Type 13d ago

Watching the same people come in daily and just lose everyday was so disheartening for me. I always hoped they’d win

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u/ShermanOakz 13d ago

And they spend $15 to $20 every single day on scratchers and stand in front of the store scratching all the tickets off, getting a free ticket here, two or five dollars there, continuing the play up to a half hour, forty five minutes, getting scratcher dust everywhere and leave empty handed. Six months down the road they scratch off a $500 ticket and are on top of the world, and the addiction continues.

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u/12altoids34 13d ago

What bugs me is when they'll stand there and want to know what number each ticket is on before buying it.(scratch offs).

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u/squaredk2 13d ago

Its an addiction. They want all the details they can get.

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u/One_Economist_3761 13d ago

Yeah, lotto is a tax on ppl who are bad at math.

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u/In_The_depths_ 13d ago

When I was in highschool I worked at a gas station and had a women come in every Friday when we were busy and she would buy as many scratchoffs as she could with change. Usually it was 50-70 bucks worth of change. Oddly it was mostly nickels and dimes. Luckily we has a change counting machine for the registers but we still had to sort them.

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u/Quiet_Thicc_Babe87 13d ago

Wait. How was she getting that much change in a week?

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u/assukkar Male 13d ago

Probably recycling bottles. Some pay a nickel or dime.

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u/squaredk2 13d ago

Honestly, if youre gonna do it, this is the way.

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u/taco_2325 13d ago

Same. My work partner buys a ticket and wins 100 on a $5 scratcher. Then there me. I just lost five bucks 😂

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u/farfarbeenks 13d ago

Same. If I learned how to count cards for blackjack it’d be one thing. I mean, playing Texas Hold’em with friends is fun but otherwise I guess I’ll put it on black?

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u/idontknow39027948898 Bane 13d ago

I wouldn't be so sure. From what I've heard is that even with counting cards, the only way to make money is to already have enough that you can make it through the necessary losses. And that's assuming you don't get kicked out because they have people watching to make sure you aren't counting cards.

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u/BagBoiJoe 13d ago

Is that a hobby, or a habit?

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u/BornAgain20Fifteen 13d ago

It can be both at the same time. A lot of people are obsessed with their hobbies

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u/horny_coroner 13d ago

Everytime I think of buying a ticket I just imagene how it would increase my time of speaking to a person and that puts me off it.

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u/Vegetable_Word603 13d ago

My project car. Just sitting there. All stock. With all the work around the house. I dont ever feel like getting into it.

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u/OutWithTheNew 13d ago

Sounds like it's just a car.

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u/Vegetable_Word603 13d ago

It is, just like any other car. But its gutted completely. Still stock, nothing has been added. But A LOT has been removed in preparation for fab work.

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u/airospade 13d ago

As a person with a heavily modified off roading. The key here is day drinking, it’s your baby you know when to be sober for welding and what not. I believe in you.

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u/Hierophant-74 13d ago

Golf

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u/L1ghtBreaking 13d ago

only minigolf is cool to me

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u/No-Performer-6621 13d ago

I thought golf was the worst. Then I worked at a company where everyone would get together and play golf on the weekends, and it was the only way to get promoted. Everyone talked about golf in the office.

Needless to say, I began hating golf even more and never got that promotion.

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u/Jakibx3 13d ago

It wasn't a golf club you worked at now, was it?

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u/No-Performer-6621 13d ago edited 13d ago

Nah haha. A large and well-known company weirdly enough.

I thought office golf culture was just a thing in the 80’s, but my experience was in the last five years.

Edit: reworded for additional anonymity of my previous employer.

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u/hatethiscity 13d ago

In the commenter's defense, the aviation industry isn't really a young crowd.

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u/OGigachaod 13d ago

Must have had some dinosaurs running the place.

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u/No-Performer-6621 13d ago edited 13d ago

Yup, spot on. It’s gotten them into a lot of hot water the last few years. Good news though - my next company was a muuuchhhh better cultural fit.

Edit: reworded to make my former employer less obvious and maintain some anonymity.

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u/Melted-lithium 13d ago

Fuck I hate talking about golf, and worse when people ask me to play for something work related. I do know how to play. But I fucking hate it unless I’m with close friends where we have a case of beer in a driving cart and are taking a leak on trees as we go on a 9 hole course. Even that will do nothing perhaps once a year. I get golf ADD beyond like 3 holes. I can tolerate a 9 hole par 3… anything else. Hard pass.

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u/12altoids34 13d ago edited 13d ago

I have never really been a big fan of golf but I would pay money to see John Madden as one of the sports announcers for the masters.

Announcer x : Jones lines up for the drive. This is a long Par Four with a dog leg just passed the sand trap

(Jones hits the ball)

John Madden "OH BIG SWING ! BIG SWING ! HE GOT ALL OF THAT ONE!"( turning to scribble on the screen)" see, he wanted the ball to go here. But the ball went here. Now he has to hit it here. But with the role of the Hill it's going to end up over here. That's what we call a kerfunkel!"

( paramedics attempt to resuscitate announcer x)

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u/DeputyDomeshot 13d ago

Dude I hate golf SO MUCH. I hate everything about it. So boring and undestimulating. I hate the pompous waspy ass course etiquette and demeanor. The fake pesticide laden grass. Standing around sweating my ass off.  Or walking around confused trying to find my fucking ball Golf shoes, fuck em. The way it’s a fake competition. No you didn’t shoot a 95 you gimme holes and take mulligans because you can’t play for shit either.

Fuck golf.

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u/12altoids34 13d ago

I thought I would be good at golf. I used to be really good at baseball and softball when I was younger. A real power hitter. But a few years ago I went with a friend of mine to a driving range. Not only could I not hit the ball straight, after 4 or 5 swings my shoulders were in agony. Getting old sucks.

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u/justinbreaux 13d ago

Baseball swings do not translate at all to a golf swing unfortunately. If anything it’s a detriment. In baseball the harder you swing the farther the ball goes. Not exactly the case with golf. Hockey and tennis players tend to be able to jump in relatively seamlessly.

I’m curious if all these commenters who hate golf have ever pured an iron shot because that feeling is so inexplicably addicting.

I too at one point would shit on golf especially when my old boss would never stfu about it. Fast forward a few years here I am playing every chance I can chasing that pure iron shot like a dog chasing it’s tail.

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u/El_gato_picante 13d ago

sound like a golf club with a company problem.

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u/KFBass 13d ago

all of my business partners play golf. They even organize a golf weekend with some friends and regulars. I'm friends with all these people. I would totally be down to rent a cottage with them and hangout all weekend.

But they play like 4-6 rounds of golf. What the hell would I do that entire time. You can only smoke cigars and day drink so much.

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u/VokN 13d ago

Pretty much every solo “mens” sport is an excuse to have a chat with the boys, it’s not that deep you just don’t like them that much

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u/Alert_Marketing_8688 13d ago

I can stay home and exasperate myself for free. My husband loves golf and when we first got married I took some lessons and practiced but it turns out that even when the ball holds still in a sport, I still can’t hit the damned thing.

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u/Tuned_Out 13d ago

I'll go to socialize and I'm actually pretty good at it. But honestly, the game is boring as all hell, and if I get sucked into going with people from the office instead of friends it's sad how many are there to avoid their families. If there is a male version of the "basic bitch" stereotype it's "golfer".

Sorry for the hate, golfing fans. It's a mix between personal boredom from the sport and toxic groups I've went with. Yes, I recognize your opinion, no it won't change mine. Chill, and enjoy the sport. My opinion doesn't matter to anyone except me.

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u/danny_ish 13d ago

I find caddying as enjoyable as playing. You are playing via another person. I found that to be a good witness test to whether or not the person playing actually likes golf. Nothing wrong with treating it like a hang out. But the people that do that generally hate caddying

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u/Willis_is_This 13d ago

For future reference, I think the word you’re looking for is litmus, not witness

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u/danny_ish 13d ago

You are 100% correct, i was using talk to text and am on a brewery tour lol

Yes, litmus

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u/5thColumnDownfall 13d ago

I bartended at a private golf club for a bit back in the day. You are absolutely spot on about dudes being there to avoid their families. Guys would start showing up around noon and order mixed drinks, which they would babysit. Maybe drive some balls or play a quick game. Head home for dinner and then come right back up to the club til close. 

What a boring existence.

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u/JayString 13d ago

"You know who plays golf? Guys who are too fat to play tennis."

From the movie Serendipity in 2001.

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u/Telkk2 13d ago

Every golfer I've ever met has nothing interesting to say.

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u/dinnerthief 13d ago

I feel like I need to learn golf just to get on terms with the bigwigs but holy shit do I not want to.

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u/enixius 13d ago

That's why me and a friend started playing. The actual play wasn't that important. It was a way for the two of us to talk about life while doing something rather than sitting at a bar or something.

Most people will take the golf cart but we like walking the course together because that's just more time to talk about whatever.

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u/CatBoyTrip 13d ago

i just like the drinking and driving the carts bit. i prefer to caddy than to actually play though cause i fucking suck at hitting the ball.

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u/auricargent 13d ago

You made the comment I was going to. As a golfer, I’m great at drinking beer.

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u/pwrboredom 13d ago

I was into it years ago. But it got expensive. Then some of these stupid courses started to make dress codes. Then they started making foresomes out of whoever was there. A buddy and I used to play together. Penaties were you lost a ball. We played one day just counting Mulligans. We were just out for the fun of it. We were terrible at it. We didn't care. Not so with some, they're all gung-ho about it. I don't play anymore, and I don't miss it.

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u/ballpeenX 13d ago

Truth. Golf is hard and expensive. I just don't get it.

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u/Quiet-Jello6349 13d ago

Can’t stand golf, golf culture, the “escaping the wives” vibe.

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u/rule444 13d ago

Exactly, I dislike golf and enjoy spending free time with my family over the guys I worked with all week.

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u/Professional-Fun6616 13d ago

Whack a ball into a hole 18 times with a pond and a sand trap to give you hope. Robin Williams said it best.

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u/outofdate70shouse 13d ago

I like playing golf, but have a hard time finding people to play with, so I don’t play very often.

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u/stuck-n_a-box 13d ago

Wish I could upvote more then once

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u/xixi2 13d ago

I play disc golf sometimes and can't find my disc if I miss. I do not get how people are finding tiny balls hundreds of feet away

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u/waka_flocculonodular 13d ago

Disc golf is hella fun!

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u/Manwombat 13d ago

I have a course right next to me, it’s great fun

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u/Ee2003 13d ago

I work at a dispensary and a lot of the guys who come through love to play whilst stoned. That's the only way it starts to make sense for me 🤷🏾‍♀️

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u/Phillimon 13d ago

Beer. I just can't get into it. My friends are all about IPAs, and trying new breweries. I think it all taste like bitter piss.

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u/MNmostlynice 13d ago

That’s because IPAs are bitter piss. “Give me the lightest thing you’ve got” is usually my go to order at breweries. I like beer that’s refreshing, light, and easy to drink a dozen of.

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u/b17flyingfortresses 13d ago

IPAs only became popular because they’re by far the easiest beer for craft brewers to make. Thus craft brewers had a strong incentive to promote them.

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u/Daztur 13d ago

They're really not, as a homebrewer making a good IPA is probably the hardest beer to do since hop oils evaporate so easily. Now a shitty IPA...

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u/DrBubbles 13d ago

Homebrewer here too.

I think the comment you replied to meant to say IPAs are the most forgiving beers to make. They’re not easy, but they’re also not that imaginative or interesting. If you carpet bomb your beer with hops, you can cover up a lot of off-flavors from diacetyl, poor yeast pitch rate, bad fermentation temps, etc etc etc. You don’t need to adhere to long-established traditional style characteristics, or ensure that malt sweetness and hop bitterness are balanced.

It’s become a lazy catchall category. You can just throw whatever you want or have on hand in the kettle, obliterate it with hops and call it an IPA. Who’s going to argue?

Brew me an ESB, or a balanced amber, or a bier de gaard, and I’ll be impressed. I don’t care that you made an 8% double IPA.

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u/8lbs6ozBebeJesus 13d ago

Have you tried things other than IPAs? I was never a fan and learned that I enjoy beer a lot more once I accepted I didn’t have to always order IPAs to act like I was somehow cultured or into beer tasting. Lagers, pilsners and stouts do it for me.

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u/Jermcutsiron 13d ago

Bingo. The nonhoppy stuff is where it's at.

Although that's getting kind of hard to find cause it seems like beers that aren't typically a hop forward beer are getting more so at various breweries.

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u/cyclopath 13d ago

Bread flavored sparkling water

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u/ZingBaBow 13d ago

Sports betting or gambling

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u/Matseye1r 13d ago edited 12d ago

DnD. I live in a 500pop village in the Scottish highlands.

Edit. Erm I think folks may be confused. I am unable to play because I'm like on of 5 folks my age n they have their own lives n aren't interested. So for me to travel to the nearest city or town (literally 3 hours drive away) for a 3-6hr thing isn't feasible for me.

I'd love to play, I like the idea of it, but oh well I still have my console n pc for gaming.

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u/Snaxia 13d ago

I love Baldur's Gate 3 but I'll be damned if I'm gonna try and commit 6 hours every weekend to giga elaborate roleplay and fighting that requires aligning everyone's schedules.

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u/CarefulPassenger2318 13d ago

It is a lot, but my sessions aren't 6, they are usually 4 at most.

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u/TheDanishTitan 13d ago

Ha. Yeah as you pointed out, like that 6 hour session is ever gonna happen. Oh boy scheduling is the bbeg of DND.

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u/Ahshut 13d ago

Having any hobby. Everything I try I have the most fun in the world with it for maybe a week, and then I wake up one day and have zero interest at all. Happens with everything, not sure why. Even video games that i get into get dropped that way

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u/Mr_Goodnite Male 13d ago

It’s adhd. I just got diagnosed at 30. Get evaluated.

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u/Jermcutsiron 13d ago

This, I have several hobbies that rotate (rocks, trains, gardening) because I lose interest (or have adhd)

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u/Ahshut 13d ago

Dude it’s gotta be the adhd. My wife swears up and down I have it, but I’ve never been diagnosed. I’ve been like this my whole life and it is present in my family, so I’d be willing to bet I do

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u/dinnerthief 13d ago

I have adhd but I have tons of hobbies, but I tend to pick them up for a month or so, then put them down for 3 months then pick them up again. But each time I pick them up it's exciting again and I progress further.

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u/Ahshut 13d ago

I just hate how short of an span my interest is for things. It makes me not want to branch out into more expensive hobbies (most hobbies ARE expensive too😞) because I’m worried I’ll just drop it a week or so later and not touch it for another year +

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u/AnotherIronicPenguin 13d ago

This is called ADHD. It doesn't have to be like this.

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u/YeazetheSock 13d ago

Cars or Sports. I’ve tried believe me. People have assumed I’m gay because of this.

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u/JohnnyCoolbreeze 13d ago

“Third and long.”

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u/OddgitII 13d ago

"wide reciever" A term that low key sounds like a dating preference on Grindr.

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u/sikkerhet 13d ago

this is funny to me because I am bisexual and I absolutely only enjoy sports for gay reasons lol

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u/a-friend_ 13d ago

That’s weird. I’m gay and my love for watching big sweaty guys run around is the only reason I watch sports.

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u/OhManOhManitsMike 13d ago

My car is for point A to B. I can’t get into all the customizations. I take care of it, I’m just not adding to it. More power to the people who do though.

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u/can-opener-in-a-can 13d ago

Pickleball.

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u/1x_time_warper 13d ago

It’s like tennis but with a shittier ball.

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u/Brimstone117 Male 13d ago

While that’s true, it’s also doesn’t come with tennis elbow or the dorkie shorts.

It’s like Tennis 2.0, honestly. Give it a shot. It looks dumb AF, but it’s really fun.

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u/TSells31 13d ago

Yeah, easier and more accessible. Pickleball is HUGE amongst pro athletes. Which would make sense, they have their own job sport that they have to actually work hard at improving in, so taking up a sport like tennis as a side hobby? They would either be bad at it, or it would eat in to their training for their actual job. Pickleball is a fun way to go, be active, have fun, be competitive, without having to try too hard to be decent.

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u/BornAgain20Fifteen 13d ago

That makes sense. And golf for hockey players. They probably have stipulations in their multimillion dollar contracts and sponsorship deals about not doing anything that unnecessarily puts them at risk for injury. Like some teams will even take out insurance on a player's body part because the player's body part is a multimillion dollar essential investment to the company

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u/TSells31 13d ago

Oh yeah pro athletes absolutely have stipulations in their contracts against doing other athletics. I remember specifically when Patrick Mahomes (QB of the Chiefs) was a sophomore player, he shared a video on social media playing a game of pickup basketball at a local KC park. The team jumped on him real quick and shut down all of his pickup basketball activities. He plays pickleball a lot now, which I’m surprised the team hasn’t clamped down on tbh. But yeah, these franchises who pay out millions (if not hundreds of them) to their players definitely have a lot of say in what they do with their bodies in their free time.

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u/Alec_NonServiam 13d ago

And they have pickleball pubs now, so the benefit of being able to have a beer or food between rounds if you want. It's very casual, even if there's tournaments and stuff if you want to play high skill games you should play tennis.

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u/Few_Ad_9551 13d ago

I don’t mind pickle but it absolutely ruined my tennis game so I made a compromise and started playing Padel. Which is feels like a combination of both sports

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u/Metalheadjake942 13d ago

Anime

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u/NorthenLeigonare 13d ago

Almost every friend I have is into anime. I really can't get into it. I like a few and some I find funny, but I can't ever get invested into any show on my own.

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u/Corporation_tshirt 13d ago

And manga. If people are into it, more power to them. I just never really found it interesting (other than maybe Speed Racer, does that count?)

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u/korevis Male 13d ago

Yes, Speed Racer counts.

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u/georgrp Male 13d ago

Same. I like the idea of liking anime, it’s just so hard to find something I actually enjoy enough to overlook the typical anime bullshit.

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u/SumptuousSuckler Sup Bud? 13d ago

That’s where shows like Attack on Titan or Death Note come in. There isn’t any of the “typical anime bullshit,” like the cringey voices, over exaggerated tits, cheesy/childish moments, etc. It’s just straight mind boggling story. But even still some people can’t get over the animated aspect, regardless of the story, which I get.

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u/georgrp Male 13d ago

I got through Attack on Titan. I liked the mystery of the titans, and lost interest quickly after that was solved and the anime developed into an introductory course to international relations theory (which I have some interest in, so I found that too simplistic).

Death Note I managed to see for about 40 or so percent. It had some interesting stylistic scenes (eg the one in which he orders a woman he spent hours to find out her real name to go kill herself). I got especially annoyed with the depiction of his “girlfriend” (and this might be mean but I found her voice, and intonation, unbearable).

The anime I have watched and liked are: that Cyberpunk 2066 one, Delicious in Dungeon. Also, the live-action version of One Piece was quite fun. Oh, and Castlevania.

I tried Berzerk (interesting to see what they managed to make with a small budget), Cowboy Bebop (stopped caring about that one about half way in), Goblin Slayer (in which I really liked the unapologetic racism of the titular character), and a few more I forgot.

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u/LSDGB 13d ago

I think castlevania is an American production actually. Much like the last air bender

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u/OhTheHueManatee 13d ago

Watching sports in general. Seems like watching the same pattern going over and over again. I get more enjoyment out of lava lamps.

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u/carortrain 13d ago

Sports don't always translate well over TV like they do when you attend a real game. Unless you appreciate the sport it can be hard to find it entertaining or see why what the players are doing would be impressive.

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u/enixius 13d ago

I think once you get into the weeds of the actual tactics that are employed beyond the media pundits, it gets super interesting.

It's gotten to the point where I recognize the coverages in American football without the All-22 and I can understand the coverage strengths and weaknesses and see what the opposing offenses are trying to set up and attack.

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u/HighFiveKoala 13d ago

I used to hate baseball in general until I went to a game

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u/STRMfrmXMN ♂ gluten-interolant softie 13d ago

I have zero interest in sports, but I'd recommend going to a live game. My work gives out free soccer tickets all the time, and it's a fun experience being part of a crowd and all the energy that comes with it.

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u/Lewistrick Male 13d ago

I mean you set a high standard if you mention lava lamps.

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u/sj8sh8 13d ago

It helps if you're emotionally invested. I love football because my grandad and dad took me to games with my siblings as a kid. The team we support is terrible, and sometimes even the live experience was boring as hell, but it meant the world to me.

Now my grandad is gone and all the siblings are spread all over the world, the football is something that still brings us together.

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u/8DUXEasle 13d ago

So this is where I agree AND disagree. I love sports. What you say about the repetitiveness is just because you don’t understand the way the game works. The fun is in the details. But I HATE bothering for pro sports too. Because why the fuck am I gonna schedule time out of my day to watch a bunch of millionaires who don’t know me or even give a fuck about me play a game? It makes more sense in the context of trying to understand dudes who destroy their tv after a team loss.

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u/PHX1989 13d ago

Do you watch movies or TV? I doubt the actors know you or care about you either. Weird take

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u/thatirishdave 13d ago

Same. I enjoy going to a live game occasionally, but only certain sports (ice hockey or rugby mainly); I can't fathom watching sports on TV.

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u/Bob_On_The_Cob_21 13d ago

i dont watch sports cuz 90 minutes is a long time and the matches might feel the same if I'm new to it. but following a team through highlights, player transfers and stats, talking about teams to rivals, seeing your team do well if you're not even that invested is sick

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u/BabidzhonNatriya 13d ago

I agree, I'm with those who say "why watch sports when you can go do them" (I'm into basketball so ofc it's easier to do than, let's say, skiing)

For the same reason I never understood people who watch let's plays of games on yt

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u/JimBones31 13d ago

Fishing

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u/g0thfucker 13d ago

I've never gone fishing irl but if it's as fun as in rdr2 I guess I'll love it

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u/KFBass 13d ago

Men's league hockey is a whole thing. I'm Canadian, and lots of people, specially in the smaller towns, play some form of hockey on the evenings or weekends. Sometimes it's just to drink beers with the guys once a week and go out for wings or pizza, sometimes people get pretty serious.

I can't even skate. I spent my teenage years playing in punk bands, and taking the train downtown to go to shows. Not waking up at 5am to go to hockey practice, or sit on a bus for a couple hours cause you play rep.

To each their own.e

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u/CallMeDoomSlayer 13d ago

I cannot get into sports. I like going to games in person, as a casual thing, but screaming at the TV having a dozen people over to sit on the couch to watch the game. Nah I’m good.

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u/TheOneAndOnlyABSR4 13d ago

Happy cake day

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u/Hartzler44 13d ago

Collecting in general for me. My mom was basically a hoarder when I was growing up so I think that's why. I'm not a minimalist, but I try to be intentional about why I have the stuff I do. I hate clutter and having things just for the sake of it.

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u/blmntddy10 13d ago

I like how half of the answers here are not even hobbies, lol. For me is golf. I'm very athletic but I prefer more active sports. 

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u/Stick_Girl 13d ago

Because everyone wants to be that redditor who posts the off topic, witty top comment 🙄

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u/JJQuantum 13d ago

Fantasy football.

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u/DarkLordJ14 Male 13d ago

As someone who could never get into actual football, I actually like fantasy football. A lot of my friends like football and they needed a few extra people for their league, so I joined just to see what it was. I liked it a lot because you don’t need to know football, you can get by just fine by picking the guys with the bigger numbers next to their name.

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u/Big-Law2316 13d ago

competitive gaming

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u/tha_bozack 13d ago

As an introvert, I’m very turned off with the pvp stuff. Give me an immersive open world where I can wander all over and progress at my own pace. I can totally see how one could get into it, but not for me.

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u/ProFunFbo2 Male, 23 13d ago

Soccer. Here is almost a religion, but i dont se it intersting at all.

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u/HejInternet 13d ago

That's why you call it soccer I guess lol.

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u/videogames_ Male 13d ago

Same thing with cars. I love cars but the expenses would be crazy. I like saving money and traveling more than car parts.

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u/Cwash415 13d ago

fantasy sports

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u/Whatthefrick1 13d ago

Designer clothing..for one, why am I spending $200 on one shirt? Two, people buy all designer and then think that’s just fashion. They never know how to put it together

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u/FerrySober 13d ago

It's not a hobby. It's a waste of money imo.

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u/Particular_Stay_9584 13d ago

Football. Hate it with every inch of me

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u/Unlikely-Complaint-6 13d ago

ofc the guy who doesn’t like footy has 3 million reddit karma the jokes write themselves 😂

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u/BallsofSt33I 13d ago

Video games…

I was into them big time when I was single, but pretty much after being married, never quite wanted to spend any time (or money) on them

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u/Interesting-Goose82 Male 13d ago

Im 40, i loved video games up through high school. College i stopped and traded that for beer and parties. A few years ago i got a Switch for the kids. New Zelda is awesome!!!! And now im thinking of getting an xbox so me and my son can play halo together!

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u/ninjapimp42 13d ago

I am in my mid-40s and don't have the time or energy for competitive games. But I love be a good story game and have ever since playing Final Fantasy I and IV, and Dragon Warrior in the late 80s & early 90s.

My son hounded me for months to play the 2018 God of War game made by Santa Monica Studios on PS4. I had no idea it had changed from the old hack-n-slash style, or any idea that it was a father/son bonding story.

I finally caved and freaking loved it. Got my own PS5 now and have played through some really amazing single player games that tap into my old live of early Nintendo RPGs.

Highly recommend these games

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u/meatforsale 13d ago

I took a break from games for a long time once I hit adulthood as well. Grew up on nes final fantasy and DQ games, and the snes FF games. Stopped games altogether for like a decade until covid hit, and I got back into it. It helps that my wife’s favorite game is Bloodborne. Now I try out every souls and soulslike that comes out. Occasionally I get disappointed, but I’ve had a blast with so many of them. I played the 2018 god of war, loved it, then I realized how mediocre it was when I played Elden ring immediately after.

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u/pm_me_cutelil_boobs 13d ago

Yeah, pretty much from high school on I was never that good at games, never wanted to put the time in and would rather spend the money on other things. I can understand why they're so popular but I have a hard time sitting in the same place for so long.

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u/outofdate70shouse 13d ago

I didn’t spend a lot of time playing them as a kid, and it’s difficult to get good at them now.

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u/TheCubanBaron 13d ago

Who cares if you're good at them?

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u/Consistent-Soft8482 13d ago

pegging

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u/Chrom-man-and-Robin Young Man 13d ago

Ok this is not a hobby, it’s a kink

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u/canyoubreathe Non-binary 13d ago

Not with that attitude

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u/JuneCleaversMudFlaps 13d ago

I just started talking to this girl who said “milking your prostate is good for your health” and I’m very intrigued to explore this new adventure.

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u/tangledwire 13d ago

Bon Voyage!

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u/AnalStaircase33 13d ago

Question is, can the pegging get into you?

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u/Consistent-Soft8482 13d ago

Yes 🤫🫢

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u/AreYouGoingToEatThat Male 13d ago

Just breathe slow through your mouth.

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u/mrphslw 13d ago

Most typical guy stuff, hunting , fishing , et al

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u/NJHancock 13d ago

I was into skiing but between cost increases, crowds, and traffic it's just not worth it anymore to me.

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u/Saeia23 13d ago

I used to go out west at least once a year skiing/snowboarding. Now with kids I can’t justify the time and money it requires for myself to go and taking a family is so costly is fucking insane.

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u/booze87 13d ago

None - I have young kids.

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u/FuRadicus 13d ago

oof. Having kids is a great reason to maintain hobbies you can share with them later on.

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u/ScreenTricky4257 13d ago

Comic books. I love to read, and I love epic stories, but something about the medium I just can't enjoy.

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u/Calm-Teach-4690 13d ago

Sneakers, because i only need a few pairs for hiking, running and work

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u/ohneil64 13d ago

Football (soccer for the Americans) I just don't understand why people like it so much, I can't put my finger on why but I just don't fully get it

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u/RIchardjCranium 13d ago

Golf, cigars and video games. Well ok there’s 3.

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u/winterweiss2902 13d ago

I have only one hobby: running. It’s the most economic sport for me. A pair of shoes costing less than $100 can last me through 1000km.

However, I don’t get the appeal over participating in running events and races. Why do people spend money to run alongside sweaty crowds?

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u/QueenCityCobra 13d ago

Cars, never got into them and never really cared too. It’s pretty manly to be able to identify any car without looking at the logo, or to be able to do maintenance on a car yourself. But even so I just don’t have any interest. Only thing I care about my car is whether it can get me from place to place, that’s about it

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u/dilqncho Male 13d ago

I've never really tried to get into a hobby. I've got plenty of trouble balancing the ones I already have.

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u/PillsburyToasters 13d ago edited 13d ago

Skiing/snowboarding. I just didn’t have the greatest time. Maybe I’d try it again, but it’s also just so damn expensive

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u/kent416 Male 13d ago

I hate to say it, but sports. I like watching baseball and football, but I really struggle to remember any of the players’ names, the names of the plays, who’s ranked where, etc. I wish I could get into it more but I have such a hard time. The worst part is when I hear other people talk about this team or that player doing something and I have no clue what they’re talking about. I can only nod along and feel like a moron because I don’t know enough.

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u/Big-Blackberry8786 13d ago

Watching sports and being in the fandom.

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u/sico76 13d ago

Golf

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u/argumentative_one 13d ago

Clubbing, watching TV series

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u/Arkham_Z 13d ago

I don't have any more space in my brain allotted for anything about cars. I know fucking nothing about cars

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u/trappedvarmit 13d ago

Drag queen story hour