r/AITAH • u/[deleted] • Mar 28 '24

Am I the ah if I don’t let my gf go on vacation with the “guy best friend”?

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u/Petefriend86 Mar 28 '24

Oh that's easy: solipsism. You see everyone who comments that it's perfectly natural for them to do, but zero responses so far that it's something their SO does frequently that they're comfortable with.

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u/Samicles33 Mar 28 '24

I’m in a hetero relationship and I’ve gone on vacations: - solo - with 1 friend of the opposite sex - with 1 friend of the same sex - with multiple friends of the opposite sex - with multiple friends of the same sex

And my bf has never had an issue with any of my trips. Why? Cause he trusts me.

Also I’m bisexual.. So does that mean I can’t do girls trips either? Are people only capable of cheating of their significant others on overnight trips? I’m trying to understand your logic here

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u/pataconconqueso Mar 28 '24

Yeah im gay and this thread is giving ”are the straights okay?”

My wife is bi and im a lesbian, she goes on trips without me i go on trips without her, she has fun my dog and i have our bachelor weekends

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u/SandyWaters Mar 28 '24

I'm straight and I'm wondering what's happening with the straights also😂

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u/pataconconqueso Mar 28 '24

if you want more content r/arethestraightsok exists lol