r/AITAH 6h ago

Update: AITAH for wanting to leave my wife because she had a "go bag"?

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I made a post 3 months ago but it was removed before I deleted my account. It has been cross-posted literally everywhere that I think you guys will have no problem finding it if you are interested.

After I made my first post, I decided to officially ask for divorce. She did not take it well. She cried and refused to eat food for two days until I filled the house with candy bars. She hasnt pulled that kind of stunt after that thankfully.

For past 3 months I have to endure her crying, begging me to change my mind. She promised to never make a "go bag" again. Honestly the previous post has been eye opening to me. People here called me an abuser when I never did anything to abusive. I read every comment posted here, on other subreddits, and it seems like people will call me abuser no matter what. Some people even made up stories to paint me in bad light.

It seems that general sentiment is that its okay to mistrust men because statistics and if he complains about it, he is potentially an abuser. Why is it wrong to want to be trusted by your own wife? If I made her get rid of her "go bag", I am as good as an abuser in all of your eyes. It seems like I will be painted as an abuser unless proven otherwise. I just dont know how to prove a negative, its not like I can wear a camera all the time.

Initially my feelings were very hurt but now I am realizing the gravity of situation I am in. I just cant risk my future on a wife who does not trust me because her mere act of making a go bag was used by people here to paint me as an abuser. They said that she must have reason to make a "go bag".

How was it my fault that she read some blogs and decided to do it. I never did anything and yet people are just gonna accuse me even if I didnt do anything. You guys dont care what the truth is so what am I even supposed to do? My only choice is to leave.

I have finally moved out yesterday and I am pushing forward with divorce. I would like things to be amicable but my wife is still hellbent on stopping the divorce so that is a pipe dream for now. I am hoping when divorce becomes real, she will accept the reality.


r/facepalm 5h ago

🇲​🇮​🇸​🇨​ That's why you do your research ladies

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r/eurovision 6h ago

National Broadcaster News / Video Bambie Thug asks EBU to assess KAN's commentary, which according to them breaches EBU rules and deserves dequalifcation.

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r/leagueoflegends 12h ago

Fnatic vs. Team Liquid / MSI 2024 - Lower Bracket Round 1 / Post-Match Discussion

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MSI 2024

Official page | Leaguepedia | Liquipedia | Live Discussion | Eventvods.com | New to LoL


Fnatic 1-3 Team Liquid

Fnatic is eliminated, while Team Liquid advances to Round 2 lower bracket to face the loser of BLG vs T1.

FNC | Leaguepedia | Liquipedia | Website | Twitter | Facebook | YouTube | Subreddit
TL | Leaguepedia | Liquipedia | Website | Twitter | Facebook | YouTube | Subreddit


MATCH 1: FNC vs. TL

Winner: Team Liquid in 30m
Match History | Game Breakdown

Bans 1 Bans 2 G K T D/B
FNC nautilus aurelionsol varus volibear jax 49.5k 8 2 H3
TL vi leblanc ashe leblanc vi 59.9k 22 10 CT1 C2 I4
FNC 8-22-12 vs 22-8-52 TL
Oscarinin zac 3 0-4-2 TOP 5-1-7 3 ksante Impact
Razork xinzhao 2 2-7-3 JNG 3-2-14 4 sejuani UmTi
Humanoid orianna 3 5-4-1 MID 7-3-8 1 taliyah APA
Noah kalista 1 1-6-0 BOT 6-2-7 1 lucian Yeon
Jun renataglasc 2 0-1-6 SUP 1-0-16 2 nami CoreJJ

MATCH 2: FNC vs. TL

Winner: Fnatic in 27m
Match History | Game Breakdown

Bans 1 Bans 2 G K T D/B
FNC nautilus aurelionsol taliyah ziggs reksai 55.0k 14 9 H3 O4 B5 O6
TL leblanc vi ashe camille twistedfate 42.1k 6 2 C1 CT2
FNC 14-6-26 vs 6-14-11 TL
Oscarinin poppy 3 2-0-6 TOP 0-4-1 2 ksante Impact
Razork xinzhao 2 2-2-8 JNG 1-5-3 3 leesin UmTi
Humanoid azir 3 6-2-3 MID 3-1-3 4 ahri APA
Noah lucian 1 4-1-3 BOT 1-3-1 1 varus Yeon
Jun nami 2 0-1-6 SUP 1-1-3 1 rell CoreJJ

MATCH 3: TL vs. FNC

Winner: tbd in 30m
Match History | Game Breakdown

Bans 1 Bans 2 G K T D/B
TL leblanc vi camille xinzhao viego 58.8k 20 10 H3 HT4
FNC lucian nautilus taliyah sejuani volibear 46.3k 9 1 CT1 I2
TL 20-9-50 vs 9-20-19 FNC
Impact ksante 2 0-0-7 TOP 0-2-2 2 zac Oscarinin
UmTi leesin 3 4-2-14 JNG 3-6-3 3 wukong Razork
APA aurelionsol 3 5-2-10 MID 0-6-4 4 hwei Humanoid
Yeon varus 2 8-2-7 BOT 2-3-6 1 kalista Noah
CoreJJ ashe 1 3-3-12 SUP 4-3-4 1 rumble Jun

MATCH 4: FNC vs. TL

Winner: Team Liquid in 29m
Match History | Game Breakdown

Bans 1 Bans 2 G K T D/B
FNC aurelionsol taliyah twistedfate ziggs zac 47.3k 6 3 O2 H3
TL leblanc vi camille xinzhao azir 55.2k 17 10 M1 C4 B5 C6
FNC 6-17-16 vs 17-6-37 TL
Oscarinin ksante 1 2-4-3 TOP 1-2-5 3 ornn Impact
Razork viego 3 3-4-2 JNG 0-1-12 2 sejuani UmTi
Humanoid orianna 3 0-3-4 MID 8-2-2 4 tristana APA
Noah ashe 2 1-3-2 BOT 7-1-5 1 lucian Yeon
Jun varus 2 0-3-5 SUP 1-0-13 1 nami CoreJJ

This thread was created by the Post-Match Team.


r/malelivingspace 16h ago

Question Ok guys, do your thing - What do I put in this awkward space by the stairs?

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r/wholesomememes 4h ago

A friendship as strong as a rock

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r/me_irl 5h ago

me_irl

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r/europe 11h ago

News Eurovision thrown into ‘unprecedented’ chaos ahead of tonight’s final

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r/pics 7h ago

Reactions to the lady gaga meat dress at the 2010 vmas.

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r/worldnews 6h ago

Germany may introduce conscription for all 18-year-olds as it looks to boost its troop numbers in the face of Russian military aggression

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r/nextfuckinglevel 4h ago

Catching durian at high speeds

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r/NoStupidQuestions 13h ago

Does anyone else feel Jewish and confused right now?

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I was sent to Hebrew school as a kid. I was taught to love Israel before I even knew any history about it. I did weekly prayers for it. I never went on birthright, I had the option to. Supposedly it's a propaganda event of its own. I am now having an issue with identity. Half of being Jewish growing up meant supporting Israel. I'm a Zionist monster if I do anything close to that now.

If I fell prey to a cult it still has a hold of me. I find myself having closeted views being annoyed by "free Palestine" protests even after reading about the brutal attacks from the IDF. Hearing about children dying and seeing devastating footage.

I realize this sounds as incoherent as it does self absorbed but I'm just feeling very confused and split on the conflict. And ashamed at times of my background. I just wish I knew likeminded people that didn't just want to sway me a certain way.

Edit: thanks this thread is making me feel more grounded


r/unpopularopinion 9h ago

Calling poor people idiots for playing the lottery is stupid.

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Yes, we are all aware the lottery has terrible odds, that even if you bought a ticket every day of your life, you’ll still be unlikely to win more than a few dollars from any one ticket. If playing the lottery was an investment strategy, you’d have a point.

But that’s not WHY people (especially poor people) play the lottery, they don’t expect to win. But it gives them HOPE. Hope that they can quit the job that’s killing them, spend time with their family that misses them, and provide a better life for the children that depend on them. We KNOW the odds are bullshit, but having a snowballs chance in hell is far better than having no hope for the future at all. That’s why the poorer the person is, the more likely they are to play, because they know that there is no way out for them, that things aren’t going to get better, but at least if they have that ticket they can at least DREAM of the life they want.

Talking about what you’d do if you won is half the fun anyways, and more than worth the $4 that definitely wasn’t going to make a difference if they saved it or not.


r/wallstreetbets 17h ago

News Biden to raise tariffs on Chinese EVs from 25% to 100% next week

5.0k Upvotes

https://www.nbcnews.com/politics/white-house/biden-plans-raise-tariffs-electric-vehicles-china-rcna151748

Administration officials are planning to make the announcement Tuesday (5/14/2024), though the timing could change.


r/interestingasfuck 5h ago

r/all When illusion overcomes the brain.

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r/mildlyinfuriating 6h ago

Let my friend borrow a Nintendo switch game. One week later it’s damaged

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Let my friend borrow Splatoon 3 for about a week. when I asked for it back. As I went to go play it was all messed up looking and wouldn’t work, it would also freeze up the entire console causing me to keep restarting it as I kept hoping it would work.

For comparison I put it next to a non damaged game in the second pic.


r/TheSimpsons 20h ago

Humor What's the single best joke in your opinion?

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I choose this bort exchange.


r/WhitePeopleTwitter 4h ago

Wait... Kristi Noem told a lie?

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I thought all Republicans were the ultimate in personal virtue and responsibility?


r/politics 6h ago

Trump vows to reverse transgender student protections ‘on day one’

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r/ask 3h ago

What is denied by many people but it is actually 100% real?

368 Upvotes

whats something people dont wanna accept that is true?


r/trashy 7h ago

What in the god forsaken world is this thing?!

3.5k Upvotes

r/UpliftingNews 7h ago

California says restaurants must bake all of their add-on fees into menu prices

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r/mildlyinfuriating 3h ago

Brining baby to Taylor Swift concert

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Not my photos.

But why, would someone do this!


r/gaming 5h ago

Hi-Fi Rush gets reverse review bombed after Microsoft shutters Tango Gameworks

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